Does anyone else have a hard time conversing with most women due to an intelligence gap?

Taeqwondeles · 2020-01-27T06:58:46+00:00

women rely on emotional intelligence, men on rational intelligence. this results in them not being as able with regard to discussing the underlying fundamentals of an issue (having a deep, detailed, insightful conversation). you'll often find, if you attempt to push this type of conversation, they will become agitated, flustered, and often angry. think of the way you feel when a woman begins chattering about the latest reality show, all the details, etc. that's how they feel when you attempt to have a rational conversation.

BroscienceGuy · 2020-01-27T07:13:25+00:00

They are children. If you were smart you'd know nothing they say makes sense and most of the time they just wanna talk and get attention.

Not take any word serious and just think you're talking to a kid

rahmoune7 · 2020-01-27T07:11:47+00:00

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0lemundo · 2020-01-27T07:09:24+00:00

The best attitude is to be prudent, a woman extracts status information, who you are, how you relate to other people, with seemingly trivial questions. Since you are focused on your topic of conversation, it may seem to you that there is a intelligence gap. In fact, while you think the woman is dumb, at the same time, she thinks how fool you are, caring about abstract and useless topics, while you are oblivious of she extracting useful information from you.

TheWondernaut · 2020-01-27T07:14:14+00:00

"The true mark of genius is a lifetime of curiosity."

I read that somewhere once, but can't remember where. While surely not absolute, I like the sentiment.

I had a woman tell me once that I seemed to have much more knowledge than her about a variety of subjects, even though she had a master's degree. I told her that I am curious about many facets of life and read daily to learn about new things.

And I don't notice many women doing that. Every time I bring up an interesting article I have read, there is a good chance that some guy within earshot has probably read it, or has knowledge of the subject. But I rarely hear that from women. Obviously, there are intelligent women, but most of the ones I meet are vapid attention whores. If all you are doing is cultivating validation from social media or relationships, how could you possibly devote any time to the improvement of the mind?

hugaddiction · 2020-01-27T07:14:57+00:00

Men and women are different, but do not score differently on IQ, which is our best available metric for measuring intelligence. It's not that they are stupid, but the stuff they are interested in is. Which is another reason why its bullshit when simps claim to have female friends.

Phantom_Spark · 2020-01-27T12:47:49+00:00

Stop treating them like men. Approach a woman in conversation the way you would a young child. They have a little knowledge at best, and it’s clouded by waves of emotion and foolishness.

monk2019 · 2020-01-27T08:16:45+00:00

If you talk to women its about tone, and emotions cartied within the words. The actual words dont mean shit

jd46249 · 2020-01-27T07:12:51+00:00

Whenever I talk to women it’s never about anything “important”. Typically it’s gossip, travels, or just having fun and laughing. Nothing wrong with if youre in the mood for it. But yea typically my conversations with women aren’t about science, politics, ideas unfortunately.

SylvestorTalone · 2020-01-27T11:34:21+00:00

I remember this one time I was doing the whole 'voluntourism' thing in Africa, so I was living for a month with a bunch of people I didn't know. I got a conversation going with two of the guys about ecomomics and history, they were both fairly bright and it was an interesting interaction. Then two girls came over and sat down with us and I instantly thought to myself ''there is no way the intellectual level of this conversation can be maintained with the addition of two females, within two minutes the topic will have to change to something vapid''. I was correct, and I now can't remember what the hell it was we ended up talking about, though I remember I left before long.

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richlad · 2020-01-27T11:47:15+00:00

Yes, I most of the time aced school, collage and been medal holder but the point is simple - you can only have very shallow conversation with a woman.

So what do I talk about with women? The only thing you can get by talking to a woman is how she sees this world, you can find it amusing, awful or crazy - that's upto you to decide.

Beyond that nothing is possible.

Gretatunberg · 2020-01-27T11:55:25+00:00

of course.

WanderlustYouth · 2020-01-27T12:23:12+00:00

As I guy in the STEM field (all though i've become disillusioned by it ), i've come to find out that even "smart" women are dumb and are only good a regurgitating things they've been told, or following rules. If its in their field they can talk about it, but outside of that its like talking to any random woman you find on the streets. For all the guys who think being with a "smart" woman is any better, then they are sorely mistaken...

aniani04 · 2020-01-27T12:23:21+00:00

Every time I try speaking about deep topics, they can't keep up. Except for this one girl, that was able to discuss rationally and make good points, doesn't mean she was right, but at least she had the decency to not be triggered/take it personally. Or it's probably cause it was the first time I meet her and tried to impress me... Either way, it's very rare, cause they're too narcissistic and think the world evolves around them.

licknsuckus · 2020-01-27T13:05:19+00:00

Yes and that's just where it starts. As you get older it's had to be in the same room with them. They all are trying to run a game on everyone and everything!

liberules · 2020-01-27T14:30:29+00:00

when you step into any top end, complicated field that almost literally requires a high IQ to succeed (STEM, law, medicine, executives, etc) you're easily in the top 5%, maybe 1% of the population (or higher) in terms of IQ. you will meet tons of very intelligent people. however, those geniuses are almost entirely men. this is because even if you accept the myth that the male/female IQ average is the same (it isn't, men average higher), everyone of any reputability acknowledges that males have significantly greater variability of IQ (among other traits). this means that at the polar ends, extreme intelligence as well as extreme stupidity, are far more prevalent in men. at the top 10%, it's already mostly men, top 1% is even more disproportionately male, and top 0.1% is virtually all male. as you're only dealing with the top of extreme intelligence, it makes sense that almost everyone you meet is male. it's why in chess, a game requiring extreme intelligence, has never had a single woman win a world championship, over 99% of chess grandmasters are male, and there's so much bullshit around trying to pass off leaders in the women's leagues as having prestigious titles in the regular league. that's right... i said it... a separate chess league for women.

the women you meet may be equally intelligent as you and your male colleagues, but it's significantly more rare the higher up you get. so for most women you meet, either they're working in support roles where the intellectual requirements are significantly less (HR, sales, bizdev, accounting, operations), or they often got there through affirmative action and are objectively unqualified. not saying women can't be extreme IQ, just that the data does not support even remotely comparable populations.

tellytubbytoetickler · 2020-01-27T23:42:17+00:00

Some women this is true. Some men this is true.

Isk4ral_Pust · 2020-01-28T00:59:28+00:00

omg YES! Thank you! I am so glad someone finally said this. Most women are so stupid. I actually find that the stupidest of all women are Iranian Americans. I don't know what exactly it is with that specific subset of these vile creatures, but it's as if they're missing a few key strands of DNA or something. Like God pulled them out of the oven a few hours early.

DabIMON · 2020-01-28T08:29:07+00:00

No, I don't usually have trouble keeping up with women intellectually, but I'm sorry to hear you have that problem.

2020-01-28T21:02:32+00:00

Clearly I’ve lost the high ground here. I resorted to name calling when really I just shouldn’t lurk Reddit subs based off beliefs I don’t hold. Especially if they have a tendency to be belittling to my beliefs, my gender, or honestly anyone’s gender. I don’t want to be conversing with people who need to belittle others. Especially if it’s going to get me so annoying that I then turn to belittling others. Thanks for this lesson in self awareness. I’m glad I could turn this into something productive.

2020-01-29T14:34:02+00:00

Did I say I’d rather die than be raped? No I didn’t I think both sound pretty horrific.

Alakaska_123o9 · 2020-01-29T17:50:33+00:00

If you mean how women graduate colleges and universities on average than men...I guess. I've no trouble. Probably because I'm not sexist.

Rejoice7 · 2020-01-27T10:42:46+00:00

Culture and education to most women is instagram and soap operas. Vast majority are completely uninformed about any of the sciences, literature, history, real politics not this circus shit, religion, other cultures, consciousness/meaning of life, etc. they are as deep as the sidewalk. There is no one living in their brain. No “there” there. They live to consume. Thats about it.

And dont let STEM/work fool you. There have been more STEM/college overall grads than men for years now. They are idiots. They are “helped.” They may know their field but rest assured they know nothing else and thats the best case.

secant128 · 2020-01-27T07:41:40+00:00

Well another aspect is that they just haven't gone through hardship as much as men do cause they have put on a pedestal since they were born. And when you haven't been through stuffs before you just can't relate things to someone who does. It's that simple.

What do you expect when whatever happens, women most affected and society caters to make that less affected to women. They don't see reality and they become shallow and entitled. But what can you do, we live in a society.

Nickname_xyz · 2020-01-27T08:59:20+00:00

Different doesn't equate to less, just different. Also "looks" can be deceiving.

Title	Does anyone else have a hard time conversing with most women due to an intelligence gap?
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Date	January 27, 2020 5:31 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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