I embrace my virginity

NegitiveMA · 2017-07-19T08:09:26+00:00

Being a virgin is the best thing for you. I've gotten to the point that if society tries to shame me for doing something, it's probably the right thing to do. Society is morally upside down at this point in history.

secant128 · 2017-07-19T07:51:26+00:00

Full respect man. You can tell there's a problem when there are men out there who would prefer VR porn or fucking a sexbot than human women. Not only are women full of shit, but it's also risky from STDs, sperm jacking, regret rape, etc. Choosing to hold your virginity is kind of a moral stance to fend off those miseries and injustice, and that's why I totally respect that.

reptilianoverlord94 · 2017-07-19T08:17:26+00:00

Haha my dad just told me today be wary of women and weaponising their pussies.

ElegantLordOTheManor · 2017-07-19T12:35:26+00:00

I am one too, actually. By choice. I did have a good amount of physical contact, but I was able to resist intercourse for numerous reasons.

I turn 30 in a couple days, so that makes me a wizard.

Freeboosiefam · 2017-07-19T09:15:40+00:00

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FirefallPony · 2017-07-19T09:41:02+00:00

Why is sex seen as some kind of life achievement? Wtf.

Fussbus · 2017-07-19T07:54:37+00:00

You are absolutely not immune from false accusations. Spot on assessment of the rest though.

retraderat · 2017-07-19T12:08:12+00:00

lmao who are you going to lose your virginity to nowadays? a 200 lb oompaloompa? just don't play the game and focus on improving yourself and your quality of life.

DeMeza · 2017-07-19T11:50:20+00:00

In the past, it was considered positive for a girl or woman to be a virgin, while it was the opposite for a man.

Now, with regards to women, things have changed. If a girl or woman is a virgin it means that she wasn't or isn't able to manipulate a guy into sleeping with her.

Perhaps we're moving into an era, where being a male virgin will be broadly looked upon as something positive because it shows that the man is able to resist female manipulation. And moreover he is avoiding a mine field of STD's, making a woman pregnant, rape accusations etc.

INOFFENSIVE_MUNCH · 2017-07-19T17:39:19+00:00

Mate, men don't have a 'virginity'. It's an entirely female concept. You don't have a hymen to (too? grammar nazi's to my rescue!) break :). You're not a 'virgin'. The whole concept is ridiculous shaming of young men.

Sex doesn't mean anything. It doesn't make you any happier (unless you're seriously retarded and 'need' it...), it's a bodily function, and unlike shitting you don't even need to do it.

I haven't had sex since May last year, and I've never been happier or more content. Some of my friends, going out every weekend embarrassing themselves, affecting their health with alcohol, spending money they don't have, getting haircuts that make them look like gay fashion models (no disrespect to gay fashion models)...

And WE'RE the ones who are chumps? Western society went full fucking retard man!

Griever114 · 2017-07-19T13:00:27+00:00

Let me tell you, the word "virgin" is meaningless. If you have busted a nut before, there is no difference.

If you want a great comparison, pop one in a fleshlight... same fucking thing.

batfish55 · 2017-07-19T11:41:25+00:00

There once was a time when I would have shamed you. But....to use an analogy....I've stuck the needle in my arm. Now I know what I'm missing. Now I crave it.

You? You don't actually know what you're missing. I will say that you're gonna save a ton of cash. Resist!

PillowCastLongShadow · 2017-07-19T07:55:46+00:00

Good for you.

You should know you are not immune to false accusations by any stretch. No man is.

MobTilliDie · 2017-07-19T09:44:17+00:00

YOU.ARE.NOT.MISSING.ANYTHING.(YANMA)

dayone_27 · 2017-07-19T13:43:41+00:00

Think of all the beta cucks who "lost" their virginity after being with only 1 or 2 mediocre girls before marrying a former cock carousel rider with double or triple digits. Most men are virgins compared to Chad and the average cock carousel thot. Nothing to be ashamed of, something to be proud of actually since you're not participating in this broken system.

LeekyWindstaff · 2017-07-19T12:26:08+00:00

Took me a lot longer than 22 years to get over it, but at some point in my thirties when opportunities arose I surprised myself by choosing not to take them because I could see they'd lead to disaster. A few years later I realized there weren't any women I'd actually touch, and at that point I stopped trying to find one and ended up GMOW. That was before I even realized there was a term for it, much less a subreddit. It's important to realize there's no shame in this, contrary to what society is trying to make you believe.

ScatteredCastles · 2017-07-19T14:15:57+00:00

Downvote me to Hell. Don't care.

What the Fuck is this sub? Taking the 'M' out of MGTOW. Jesus Christ, so men are supposed to be limp-dick faggots turned-off by pussy? Sex is part of the human experience here on Earth. Your body was made for sex (made that way by God, if you're into that sorta thing). Sure, divorce rape and Herpes is a concern. But GOOD GOD MAN, denying yourself a primal pleasure? Fuck, you can take it.

I'll be sending you a thought this weekend as I plow some cute teenage girl in the backseat of a limo. And that thought will be: thank God I'm me.

TigPlaze · 2017-07-19T14:16:18+00:00

Never let anyone make you think you're less than just because you're not having sex. There's much hostility and hate toward male virgins, but that says how sick society is; it says nothing about you.

GreatBeingHuman · 2017-07-19T14:52:26+00:00

I like to fuck but I'm not going to go after girls like I used to, it's not worth the effort. If I get the opportunity to fuck a girl I want to fuck without all the bullshit I'll fuck her, is as simple as that.

ArchonForTrump · 2017-07-19T14:55:28+00:00

Congratulations on your transition from incel to MGTOW! Things just get better from here.

Dickwraith93 · 2017-07-19T15:33:19+00:00

The only thing you're missing out is the troubles. Congratulations.

_Hachiman_Hikigaya_ · 2017-07-19T07:28:46+00:00

Do whatever you like OP as long as you are fine and happy with that. The whole MGTOW thing is about living your life for yourself. Have a nice life bro but if you have a chance to have sex just give it a try. Do some one night stands bro.

yungbuck19 · 2017-07-19T13:29:08+00:00

Respect, the way to beat the game is to not play it, you're doing the right thing we all are.

Actanonverba11 · 2017-07-19T13:40:43+00:00

Nothing wrong with being a virgin, bro. Pulling tail every once in a blue moon wouldn't be too difficult, but thanks to my personal beliefs and the dangers of modern women, I find that it's not worth it.

IslandicFreedom · 2017-07-19T16:43:50+00:00

You're already in a better position than most of the PUA "lift bro" red pillers over at TRP sub.

Maybe just maybe you stand a chance of meeting 1 good woman. Until then don't get all caught up on fucking - just for the sake of fucking.

mdcrubengonza · 2017-07-19T13:00:11+00:00

You are an admirable young man. Internalize that list and be quick to recite it at a moment's notice if: "Because I don't want to have sex" doesn't work.

GarbageTruckJuice · 2017-07-19T13:34:34+00:00

>5-Porn is a much better alternative

H-how would you know? Its not btw.

Darukoaus · 2017-07-19T20:12:35+00:00

Some thoughts in response to your assertions. I was 22 when I lost my virginity - you are far from warlock/wizard status.

Sex is very subjective. I detest the company of a majority of women, but when I have had sex, it's been very worth it, because I'm ruthlessly rigorous in how I filter through women. I'm not a "PUA" or a "chad" - I simply am extremely picky about the women I sleep with. Every couple of years (or few months, if my testosterone is high), this pickiness pays off in scenarios that look quite a bit like this.
Yes, you do, but if you're "busy" and "in a hurry" (I.E. if you have a litany of excuses to make yourself scarce after the act) you can circumvent some of the bullshit. Yes, listening to her babble about inane nonsense isn't the best way to spend your time, but a lot of your conversations in the real world are like that unless you're some kind of reclusive monk. There are a lot of people without a lot of worthwhile or valuable things to say, out there in the world - and a lot of the time, if you're living the same life most of us are living in the western world, you have to listen.
Save your money and fuck a slut, not a whore.
You're also pretty safe if you use a condom, or follow the example I sent in the link I provided in field #1. Anal tends to have a very low rate of pregnancy associated with it.
Porn is good. You're welcome.

I-am-the-lul · 2017-07-20T00:42:01+00:00

Health issues aside, I want to be the first virgin to live for over 100 years, almost half way there now.

Herpnderp145 · 2017-07-20T01:31:01+00:00

Good for you. I remember that there were Yogi's in India who dedicated themselves to meditation and better health. Never masturbating or having sex. They focus on bettering themselves and helping others.

ManIsWalking · 2017-07-24T06:25:25+00:00

Hey man, if I could go back to being a virgin I'd consider it. Would have saved me from a lot of trouble. While pussy is fun at first, it's all the same in the end and it's mostly just work (for the guy).

robowriter · 2017-07-19T12:44:54+00:00

If your cool with it, that's all that matters.

EldritchSaffroN · 2017-07-20T00:14:40+00:00

Number 4 should be 1st on the list.

ElusiveSpecter · 2017-07-20T03:27:37+00:00

I’m not sure if that’s something to be proud of, but it is something to see for what it is, objectively. You don’t need women to please yourself sexually, at all. Good sex is fantastic, but no girl has ever been able to bring me to the point I’ve brought myself to.

There are so many fun, intense ways to stimulate yourself to an earth shattering orgasm if you’re willing to experiment. Trust me, try out some toys and pick up poppers from the sex shop.

Hutska · 2017-07-23T22:33:33+00:00

Bro, why would you even care about virginity? The word shouldn't have even existed in the first place. Just like there isn't a special word for people who don't own a saucepan there shouldn't be a specific word for ppl who never had sex, for the simple reason that it's not important. Tbh don't even think about it, it's not important. But you should quit porn. That shit's poison to your brain.

no_condoments · 2017-07-19T14:25:44+00:00

"1-Sex isn't worth it. 5-Porn is a much better alternative."

While I support someone voluntarily abstaining from sex, these claims are hard to make if you haven't tried it. I think you should have sex (perhaps with a hooker) and then you can make more informed decisions.

BootsanPants · 2017-07-19T15:41:55+00:00

Hmm, id still try to get laid. Don't want to be a boy your whole life right? Get a hooker they're right there sounds like you make excuses.

bob951 · 2017-07-19T08:01:25+00:00

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Title	I embrace my virginity
Author	bob951
Upvotes	104
Comments	83
Date	July 19, 2017 7:17 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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