I'm feeling depressed

Unexpecter · 2019-06-06T21:15:08+00:00

Dude you should do something. This feeling won't go away. It will intensify over time.

dataSniffer · 2019-06-06T21:42:16+00:00

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WolfUbuntu117 · 2019-06-06T21:26:37+00:00

Many people won't thank you for your service. But I wanna be one of them. That fat bitch and that soon to be simp that is not your is gonna end up doing nothing but creating ruckus.

And I'm only 23. Some may say "oh you havent seen shit" to me, but I've seen pretty much everyone's comments and they are not like a fairy tale , just some dreadful thing.

Once again sir, thanks for your service and don't let it get you sir. If you managed to get through boot camp with a DI, imagine yourself against those two. Are you gonna let it overcome your fears or run away.

Stay strong

--One fellow Colombian soldier--

Ron-Don-Volante · 2019-06-06T21:47:09+00:00

I was in your shoes. Keyword, was.

captainsaveahoe69 · 2019-06-06T21:17:21+00:00

Simper fi

sovad · 2019-06-06T21:45:00+00:00

Remember your training! Ehat you did physically now you must do mentally! Put effort, thaought and and patient planning and you can achieve! Do it man!

Phantom099 · 2019-06-07T00:47:14+00:00

Use this as a means to workout, people workout at the age of 62.

YOU CAN DO IT

006rbc · 2019-06-07T02:04:45+00:00

Start right now and take back your life, no excuses.

r/keto

r/zerocarb

r/intermittentfasting

r/snakediet if you're feeling up to it.

wilk24 · 2019-06-07T00:24:39+00:00

Turn it around. Unless you're eighty plus or something, it's not too late to change.

isjustathrowawayokay · 2019-06-06T21:32:16+00:00

Well then, you know what you gotta do. Firstly restart your exercise. That'll remove the weight and help your mind focus. Once you're on that path it's up to you to decide about your personal life.

You're a God damned marine dude. You know better than anyone that you can over come this, conquer this! Also get in touch with some of your old unit and meet up. You're never alone in this fight.

TerminalSect321 · 2019-06-06T21:44:59+00:00

I hope you ate like a king. You need to put yourself first, i know divorce is tricky if your military (unless you remarry). The kid us not yours, wife gone to pot. Start saving money away, brother. It's better to live minimalist than be stuck in a loveless, lifeless marriage where you don't feel alive. Make a plan of escape. Start working on yourself, excercises, hobbies, spend time in nature by yourself (usually clears my head).

It may feel like your trapped, yet there's always a way out. You deserve to be happy. If you put your mind to it, you can set your goals and get them accomplished!

801735 · 2019-06-06T21:55:12+00:00

I'm feeling depressed

You lucky bastard! ]=)

Poopdawg87 · 2019-06-07T00:08:36+00:00

Root causes man. Why are you unhappy? Establish that first, then make small but achievable goals to correct issues. 2 days at the gym a week minimum (ideally 4-5). If you don't have or can't afford a membership start with bodyweight stuff. Diet is more important than anything if you want to lose weight. Don't eat out, cook all your meals. YouTube will show you how if you don't have any skills. This in turn can become a fun, healthy hobby (While saving $100s a month). I am still Active Duty USAF (just hit 13 years), if you need someone to talk to just PM me man. Life isn't going to get better unless you do something though.

DonaldDickz · 2019-06-06T22:02:12+00:00

Get some you time.Tell her no, and do things on your own.It'll be a start. keep it friendly.Tell her your week-end are yours because you deserve them.Do not negociate, decide stuff and do it.

[deleted] · 2019-06-07T00:35:13+00:00

You understand the problem. That’s the first step in fixing it.

Snowzl · 2019-06-07T01:11:07+00:00

imagine unironically taking care of another man's grown up man juice, lmao

[deleted] · 2019-06-07T02:32:32+00:00

Its all baby steps m8. The first step is realizing you have a problem. The next step is deciding to do something about that problem. The good news is you still have much of your life left to fix your shit. Im assuming you are around 35-40 so you need to budget the next year into getting back in shape. Dont try and rush it give yourself 12 months and maintain.

chrisinWP · 2019-06-07T02:48:26+00:00

The journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step

jbslol · 2019-06-07T03:13:26+00:00

This is an instance where you don’t have to embrace the suck.

Estrogenoxygen · 2019-06-07T03:51:01+00:00

Check out No More Mr Nice Guy. Start building your self respect again and cut out fatty like a cancer. see how you feel then soldier!

[deleted] · 2019-06-07T03:51:39+00:00

Let's go brother, get up and GET SUM. Hit the gym, eat good food, pick up a hobby, rinse and repeat! You got this

allodermate · 2019-06-07T05:24:10+00:00

man ngl the appetite stays with ya even though the metabolism doesn't haha so many prior service guys deal with this join the club fam (not prior service but work with hella retired folk)

1st10Amendments · 2019-06-07T07:09:08+00:00

I have been considering getting on a treadmill. Not the one that leads to a man debating shooting himself in the head vs. living in his car because his ex took everything else. I mean getting on the treadmill I bought and set up, but never used. Not even once. Now I have hypertension and a spare tire, and it may be time to take a long walk by myself as listen to some walking tunes.

[deleted] · 2019-06-07T07:12:52+00:00

Since you're already married you won't get much help from MGTOW. If you're going to keep your wife I highly recommend you go to Rollo Tomassi's blog and start reading everything in order starting from the best of year one: https://therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-one/ and keep going through every consecutive year.

He's not MGTOW, but he is the best source of living a redpill lifestyle within a marriage.

Most_Insane_F2P · 2019-06-07T08:18:13+00:00

Buffet is bad for us.

Make your own life.

eduardkoopman · 2019-06-07T10:49:22+00:00

overate

fatsos

fat wife

Please get back into shape. Please, make that your nr. 1 goal.
You still have (hopefully) alot of years ahead, that you have to use your body. When your body is healthy and in shape, it can last linger in a nice way.

Get the eating/food right (no diet, justing eating what you need and eating healthy). Tell that woman of yours (if she is doing the cooking), that you want proper/healthy food (and tell her the type of things to prepare/make). If she doesn't do that, cook/make it yourself (and refuse to eat her made unhealthy food).
For example do some reasing about this, like.

https://www.amazon.com/Longevity-Code-Secrets-Living-Science-ebook/dp/B06XP84S66/

https://www.amazon.com/Food-Hourglass-Dr-Kris-Verburgh/dp/0007556160/

And add excersice to your schedule again. Or add a sport. Like for example some form of martial arts.

Chakra_Devourer · 2019-06-07T11:02:09+00:00

I know that feeling. I've been there, too. Life is a grind for most people. The bullshit that we put up with everyday by staying alive. It doesn't matter if you're rich or poor. You wake up and do the same shit and then repeat the same things the next day. The only difference is the rich have more options to do things with their money.

Rich or poor, the haves and the have nots, the clock is always ticking. You can either choose to roll with it or you can end it all. Know that either options won't affect society at large. The earth could be gone tomorrow and it won't affect the universe.
Try to find something that interests you and sink your time into it (video games, side work, tv shows, exercise, learn a new craft, build a youtube channel and etc.)

Maybe don't drink so much as alcohol can worsen your condition (and stay away from those mind-altering depression drugs if you can).

tradal · 2019-06-07T21:38:00+00:00

Hey brother, I live in depression. Every day my first hour conscious is just thoughts of suicide. If you’re in a situation where you feel like I feel, and you have a way out (like signing some paperwork) then you should do it. Depression doesn’t go away by doing the exact same thing over and over, it goes away by changing your life to what you want it to be.

thedeadpill · 2019-06-07T04:37:39+00:00

Not looking for advice, I just needed to complain.

I know you're not looking for advice, but, my situation was so similar to yours. Child was my own, but my wife was such a nag, and I was also desperately unhappy.

I divorced. It's not universal that you lose half your stuff (though, it's pretty likely). I got away very cleanly.

The talk is this: You don't get another life. These years that you're spending in indecision, they're not going to come back. You need to spend the years you have how you want them. You need to ask yourself if it's better to suffer the slings and arrows of divorce, or to live like this. Maybe the answer is the latter. It wasn't for me, but, once you think and decide, you'll be better off.

Title	I'm feeling depressed
Author	GuntherVonHairyballs
Upvotes	123
Comments	39
Date	June 6, 2019 9:09 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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