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[β]PrinceRaj5387 points88 points89 points 6 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
"I love her"
Lol at this feminized beta.
This is why mothers suck at raising sons. They raise their sons to be like this, clueless, spineless, zero self respect and self ownership, then these same sons become this, give birth to other sons and the cycle of domesticated betafied males raised by women continues itself.
What a shit show.
[β]lastminutedash30 points31 points32 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
It's alright to love someone. You just need to know that they will only love you while it's your turn.
With the whole online dating thing and sleeping with a bunch of guys, I wouldn't be surprised if each turn is shorter than the last one. Basically this puts marriage as a definite no-no.
[β]PrinceRaj5314 points15 points16 points 6 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
It's alright to love someone
It's never alright for a man to invest/overinvest his most valuable asset, which is commitment, in a woman because of cliche buzzwords like "loove" and other high school nerd nonsenses. It's not only stupid, but also goes against a man because then the woman have every incentive and chance to be the coin flip he never thought she would be.
You just need to know that they will only love you while it's your turn.
Sounds nice, but does not work in real life, just like the "just be yourself" cliche. There is no way for a man to know that, just like how a man does not know whether the child is his or not, but the woman does.
Evolutionarily speaking, a man loves idealistically when he expresses his attraction, affection, devotion and loyalty towards a woman.
A woman on the other hand, can never love a man the way a man wants her to because a woman is not capable of the same idealistic love that a man gives to her, because a woman's love is always opportunistic , not idealistic.
Here are two links which already explained what I am trying to say :
https://therationalmale.com/2012/09/10/men-in-love/
https://therationalmale.com/2011/12/27/women-in-love/
It's always a woman's choice to how she wants to spread her opportunistic love towards one guy and for how long before her next potential "branch"/option appears which gives her enough tingles, incentives and chance to act on her emotional reasoning to shift the opportunistic love to the next guy/branch. Its the man's turn to "read the book", i.e. to be with the woman.
Hence the saying : She is not yours, it's just your turn.
I will end this with a quote I learned from my grandfather :
It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective version of your own individual self than it will ever be in attempting to "fall in love"/reconstruct a marriage or a relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
[β]Total_League_22990 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Whoah Whoah Whoah! I have found extremely expensive things in the trash. I am not being sarcastic
[β]sootlord-1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We are only Human. Men love romantically / women love opprotunistic. Emotions bring color to life, wether we want to admit it or not. Women wont bring happiness, so fuck them and dump them.
[β]CeleritySteam1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's alright to love someone.
Only if they love you back, which no female is capable of.
[β]themenacehimself1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wouldnβt call that love. Thatβs temporary infatuation.
[β]deadBeefCafe201417 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Dude is still in shock, so Iβll cut him some slack.
Like many men who invest all their relationship energy into one person, heβll throw so much energy at it when he should really cut his losses.
There is no redemption for this relationship.
[β]spiesvsmercs5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Best strategy is to invest as little as possible.
[β]Dark_Shroud0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Just wait until this poor dude gives her the ultimatum.
I'm going to bet she'll clean their bank accounts out before he even thinks about his money.
Edit: okay there is some hope he's actually paying attention and protecting his money.
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/hn5fvf/found_out_my_wife_has_been_cheating_for_the_last/fx9j4w9/
[β]Sir_manalot11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
nah, that is just our simp instincts.
Men are designed to want to accept bad deals when it comes to women.
[β]spiesvsmercs7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think there's truth to this, the difference is historically a man can walk away from a woman and her bullshit.
These days you've got alimony, child support, and other relationship expenses. So men have to have higher standards than many do.
[β]sootlord3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A mans most leverage is staying single. Even if the chick ghosts or leaves you, its not a loss!
[β]PrinceRaj531 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
True, simp instincts. But what I am saying is : these instincts are enhanced by the woman that raise such men, and such men then procreate and bring more kids to indoctrinate with the same nonsense and the cycle continues.
[β]Gongodoudan20 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah were biologically tuned to actually love women. I mean, what else would make us sacrifice our entire lives for them? The issue is we believe that they do the same for us when they dont
Realizing that mutual love only exists in fag couples and that women will never love you like you love them is a hard barrier to get through. Once you do though youre completely incapable of loving them again which is nice.
[β]reflexq110 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Funny thing is i was raised by my mom and as we grew up she told us to not trust women and they are evil, they will take all your money, she said the same thing with friends as well, my mom is a middle eastern women
[β]Wide-Brick42 points43 points44 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
The person you fell in love with or are in love with only exists in your mind.... understand that, dude. You are in love but not with her. She has very little respect for you. THIS is where you start having self respect. Your marriage is over - it's not about the number of guys at this point.....it's about the total utter lack of trust combined with the utter disrespect for your safety and who you are as a man/husband.
It's time for you to pack HER bags. It's not about anger....it's about SELF respect
[β]Kooky_Air32 points33 points34 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
And her parents want him to stick his pride up his arse and play the good little mangina. Fuck that! I'd be telling her friends,workmates,other relatives and anyone who will listen what a dirty whore she is right before I told the parents and wife to get fucked.
[β]HonestGamingTroll24 points25 points26 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You have to read between the lines of what her parents are saying.
What they're really saying is... son-in-law please don't kick our daughter to the curb because if you do, she will move in with us. We don't want the bitch living with us neither.
[β]rayedward3630 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's likely, or potentially they like him more than her and don't want to lose him. Either way, the relationship is over whether he admits it or not.
[β]frikabg11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Naaah men this is not how you should deal with the situation.. let us be grown ups and act appropriately. First you buy a vpn then you copy all her filth in the form of videos screenshots etc then you make a facebook account befriend her from her device and send all of that shit to everyone in her friend list you also publish it on her wall and the you kick her out and let her perents deal with their sweet little angel.
These fucking whores will never learn and the least they could do is be revealed to the world what filthy disgusting degenerates they are.
[β]Total_League_22995 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly people behave based off of incentives/disincentives. Right now the ONLY disincentives available for terrible womenβs behavior is social. So I applaud your idea.
[β]Dark_Shroud1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
You're forgetting for him to lock down his finances so she can't clean him out.
Also possibly nanny & security cams so she can't fake assault claims to the police & courts.
[β]Chakra_Devourer13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude married a ho. LOL! It's funny that he "doesn't know what to do."
[β]RunawayGrain12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Only five times with four different guys.
LOL. "Only."
[β]Encrypted5879 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Finding friends on PoF ππ
[β]ClowntownDenisen1234[S] 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The OP: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/hn5fvf/found_out_my_wife_has_been_cheating_for_the_last/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
[β]Makonar15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Judging from his posts, he is all but ready to forgive her and take her back in.... I hope he finally gets the message his wife has been sending him for years...
[β]geocorb4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This guy is kidding himself. He has seen all the red flags and is still playing. He married a dominatrix, and is acting like her cuckold. Heβs clearly into this role play, but doesnβt want to admit it to himself.
[β]SilverNargacuga7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He has police her like sheβs his damn child, pathetic.
[β]x6x6x619825 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
was caught having inappropriate conversations....
That right there should have been the point of walking out.
[β][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
YOUR A FUCKING SIMP!
[β]themenacehimself2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Marriage is psychological slavery
[β]Lugidori1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Siiimmmpppppppoo
[β]isthisthelasttime341 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't even feel bad when the solution is so blatantly obvious. The only guys I feel bad for are when kids are involved, and the cheating wife has the means to gain full custody, take him for alimony and child support, and quite likely have full ownership of a house. Those are the only guys I actually feel bad for, cuz they are in a pit full of shit. But guys like this, who get cheated on, and then act like there is some solution to it, don't even bother.
[β]Slideri8121 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro, stop denying the truth of her. There is nothing to work out. You can never trust her again. You should not have to carry the burden of her actions through your relationship in an effort to resolve HER fucking problems. She is broken, she is lying through her teeth.
The fact that you have this complicated trail of admission, semi admission and denies should be enough on it's own. Put her, get the divorce and move on. Take custody if you have kids. Get a lawyer asap then put her the fuck out bro.
Loving someone is what it is. But you staying in a situation you know is not healthy, not working for is a form of slow suicide, it will ruin you if you don't move on.
Men move on, simps try to work out the bullshit so they can take more shit in the future.
[β]rayedward3631 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He loves the person he thought she was, not the person she is.
Not to mention the "sorry" is just because she was caught and assumes he'll forgive her (and frankly it seems he will) so she can cheat guilt-free. I hope he went off and did the last part, but after seeing enough simps on reddit I have doubts.
[β]proactive-defense0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So sick and tired of these whores.
[β]KING_CPB0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
SIMPs always take Ls.
[β]febreezing_hobos0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeesss.. Give into the anger side.. diabolically taps fingers together
[β][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Keep being a cuck buddy
[β]plebbitysrian0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
one shekel he stays with this ho
[β]Since160 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Whats hysterical is when you are with them all they see are the big fish out there. But then they go fuck these other dudes cheating on you and believe me most of them are a down grade. 30-40 yo studs are fucking 22yo girls not married 40yo whores. My buddy lived down the street from my where me and ex lived. He said she took big down grade. I seen her 2x 2 different dudes none i would have considered remote competition. Friends saw the hoe with guys and said they were straight bottom of the barrel trash. So she cheated our whole relationship and i just have to believe most were a down grade from me.
I dont know a man alive who would cheat on a attractive woman who wants to fuck him with unattractive women. Women will do this shit constantly.
[β]Sexy_McHandsome0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would dump her immediately no questions asked but women prepared for this by making divorce laws biased to them. Im also noticing WAY more posts about women being the cheater than the man.
[β]heygeekstopbanningpp0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fucking f in the chat this makes me cry.
[β]jws7550 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was him once. I tried to make it work, and it failed. All I can say is that he needs to understand and truly believe that it is over, and there is no way back, and dump her immediately.
We put much of who we are into the relationship, and changing that is impossible for many. He won't believe it, but dumping her will be the best thing to ever happen to him. She is never gonna stop cheating. She has no respect for him, which is why she keeps doing it. He will have to learn that on his own. We all do.
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