Marriage reality

ZarBandit · 2020-09-17T19:35:44+00:00

(Note: copied from another sub - I’m not the OP)

He’s a great provider, great Dad, upped his physique.

Wife DNGAF. She trapped him and is having a great time doing nothing for him. She could even be fucking a Chad on the side - because that’s what they do.

Update: LOL I was just banned from the sub. Their loss.

cyrus109 · 2020-09-17T20:13:55+00:00

Or he could propose an open marriage like so many wife's proposes lol.

Or just divorce.

Like they say "better to die on your feet than to live on your knees"

Middle_Fingers · 2020-09-17T20:47:07+00:00

All Marriages Are Like That.

RedditSucksss1 · 2020-09-17T21:17:25+00:00

Men why the fuck do you stay in a dead bedroom situation? You can easily be single and get no action lol. At least being single you can have some damn self respect.

jstrockmeyer · 2020-09-17T22:00:24+00:00

This is the stage previous to cheating (If it's not happening already...)

If the cheating on her part has not yet started, she definitely has a target on some guy and planning to trip on his dick.

I would even bet this is taking place at work. I know this is unthinkable for the great majority of bluepills, but it is so much more common that anybody in that mindset allows himself to believe.

I wish the guy the best

StarchRunner · 2020-09-17T23:12:49+00:00

Honestly, sounds like the dude did all the wrong moves. Bought a big house (read: more expensive to buy and maintain) so the in-laws can move in? Dude made his own place a viper’s nest. Upped his portion of the chores? A hell of a provider?

Dude might as well ask how much harder he’s gotta beta for betta results.

lotsofhubris · 2020-09-17T19:54:05+00:00

Sounds typical. I bet she put on weight too. I would get an escort.

Encrypted587 · 2020-09-17T20:41:03+00:00

She has got what she wants now and could be banging some other guy

Iqbal40862715 · 2020-09-17T20:44:08+00:00

This poor bastard. Let's get this man a hooker!

jws755 · 2020-09-18T03:10:01+00:00

I realize that hes not likely reading this, but here goes:

Disappear for a few hours on a friday night. Dont even take your phone with you.

Go to a movie, get a coffee, drive an hour away and drive back, does not matter what you do.

Come back and provide zero explanation.

Mystery is like catnip to women.

'Where were you? "

"What does it matter? I was doing what I wanted to do."

She thinks she knows every bit of his business, and has his penis locked down.

Finding that there is more to this man than she expected means damp panties.

Middle_Fingers · 2020-09-18T02:38:52+00:00

We need to bring back at fault divorce. Lack of sex needs to be a ground for divorce. Sex is a human need for men. A marriage without sex is not a marriage. No fault divorce really means men's fault. At least with at fault men might not lose everything if they're not at fault.

spadamaz · 2020-09-17T20:34:44+00:00

Someone go tell him.

faridle77 · 2020-09-17T23:05:15+00:00

Modern slavery

Chakra_Devourer · 2020-09-17T21:17:47+00:00

She's probably fucking someone else.

anon_likes_tendies · 2020-09-17T21:32:40+00:00

B E T A B U C K S

2020-09-18T00:21:59+00:00

I'm an awesome Dad, a hell of a provider and probably the most considerate and kind person you could find.

See, that's your problem. You're a provider. You're the utility tool. Not even a handyman, just a handy-something. Your alternatives now are either hooker or divorce, preferably both. Don't worry about divorce rape, 7 years of dead bedroom already prepare you for it anyway.

bkjunez718 · 2020-09-17T21:33:42+00:00

It's why I left besides her getting super fat

realChebz · 2020-09-18T03:37:20+00:00

I honestly think people like him are hopeless. He would not see a solution if it hit him on the face. He's 44 yo and he still thinks tat being nice to her will get him laid 🤦‍♂️.

And you know what's the most funny/sad thing is? If you try to help him, guess how he will respond? "Lololol found an incel!!11"

PrestigiousCarpet8 · 2020-09-18T11:16:20+00:00

Jesus. What kind of victim mentality does it take for a simp to complain to randos on the internet about his life? If your strategy isn't working, don't persist or, like this dope, double down. Get a new strategy. Stop doing chore play, find a new job, kick the in laws out, and for the love of God don't beg for sex with the "big boy" discussion. Have some self respect. Call a lawyer and initiate a divorce...end of story. She has everything she wants and doesn't care to give you the only thing you need. Grow up! Face the facts! Be a fucking champion for yourself because no one else will.

plainnsimpleforever · 2020-09-17T23:44:06+00:00

Yup. Once the woman has certainty, they will make the rules. Relationships will become female-driven because the guy just can't get up and leave. Men try to be strong and keep the woman from misbehaving but it's incredibly draining and eventually the man succumbs to the constant chaos.

FanofLemmy · 2020-09-17T23:54:12+00:00

Not just marriage. That's any long term relationship

rusticoaf · 2020-09-18T02:18:00+00:00

Stop it. You're making me homesick.

sushlet · 2020-09-18T03:39:17+00:00

Stopped reading at "i'm the most kidn person you could find".

BumblingBeta · 2020-09-18T12:03:25+00:00

I think the scary thing is that he improved his physical appearance and she STILL didn't want sex with him. I wonder what she looks like herself.

liaizon · 2020-09-20T23:52:04+00:00

bUt i wIlL hAVe lOtS of SEx oNCE I'M MarrIEd!?!?

You know I've thought recently about women withholding sex and why it's the most insulting thing to a man, and why I don't consider marital 'rape' rape at all. Given the fact that women contribute little if anything to society, the most insulting part of women 'withholding' sex from men..is that it's FREE to them. They didn't have to work to get a mouth, ass, or vagina, they didn't have to pay for it, or go to school for several years, or work 40 hours a week for it, it comes to them by virtue of existing, and when you consider what 'loving' a person is, you realize that these women have the sheer audacity to claim to 'love' you but won't even give you something that comes to them for FREE.

While simulataneously you can't have sex outside the marriage because that would be INFIDELITY, and would breach your contrc-... I mean "marriage" and then the government and woman can punish you for that. So you're left unfulfilled and without options. But "mARRiaGe IS aBOUt LovE" /s

Imagine I'm your best friend ever, and I get limitless purified drinking water for absolutely free and one day you ask "hey man, I'm thirsty, can you give me some drinking water please?" Then I say, no. You'd feel offended, because we're supposed to be best friends, we'd do almost anything for each other, and all you are asking for is to quench your thirst by asking me for something I get ABSOLUTELY FREE, something that comes at no cost or sacrifice to me and I can't even give you that? A rational person would start questioning the status of the relationship at that point, the problem with men who think any woman is equal to man, is that they don't.

Dumbasses.

dark_magic_master · 2020-09-18T03:29:44+00:00

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hov2787 · 2020-09-18T09:11:34+00:00

And he wrote all that, and still doesn’t realize that the truth and solution are spilling from everywhere in his text. OMG, truly lost sheep. I give up on people for ignorant morons like him

mgtowmale · 2020-09-18T12:20:26+00:00

I can only imagine how it feels to be so... stuck and frustrated, every door you try to open is slammed in your face. And it's not an uncommon story...

Gigandeth · 2020-09-18T14:22:45+00:00

7 years? He is asking for it. Spineless coward. I would have been out at the 2week/1 month mark if there was no medical reason.

ZarBandit · 2020-09-18T19:27:31+00:00

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IndividualSuckertash · 2020-09-19T01:04:07+00:00

Can someone explain this dead bedroom meme to me? I thought women want sex more as they approach menopause. Are all these women cheating or something? Just not turned on?

ChessJitsu · 2020-09-17T19:41:24+00:00

What did she say when you told her you are sexually frustrated? There is a subreddit for relationship advice, too. There might be a couple good answers you could get from there. My advice would be to find a way to seduce your wife. It's like you're back to square one. She doesn't seem to be sexually attracted to you anymore. I could say perhaps it is pre/menopause but 7 years is a long time. Do you think she is having an affair?

Title	Marriage reality
Author	ZarBandit
Upvotes	142
Comments	81
Date	September 17, 2020 7:32 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/iuqlsr/marriage_reality/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/marriage-reality.267886 https://theredarchive.com/post/267886

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