My experience with women

bacon_and_3ggs · 2019-04-11T23:45:59+00:00

I'm older than you..but you just described my red pill moment. The moment that it really clicked.

I've had 50 women in my days. Some of them relationships, one I married. Every single last one of them was almost a carbon copy. Until my red pill moment I thought. And everyone else would say, that I just had terrible luck with women.

I stumbled here..and it all clicked. How could 100s of 1000s of us all have almost the exact same experience? That was when it hit me..I'm not just spectacularly unlucky...rather every single one of then is the same.

After that moment every woman I've been with, or talked to I can see right through them.

Once that red pill sets you can never go back to the plantation. Those of you that are wavering...I know you WANT us to be wrong...hell I did too...but we arent. 100k men having the same experience is not a freak occurence.

That's when I started analyzing..'how much have i spent in my life dating, chasing women'... 100s of 1000s of dollars gone..that I have nothing to show for.

Imagine you took every penny you've ever spent on a woman and you had a check for that amount right now...what would you do with it.

In my case I would be able to retire today...right this moment. Instead I'll likely work until I die.

Dont be me

BiffBiffBiff27 · 2019-04-11T23:48:09+00:00

I think both sexes have become really bad at reading other people intuitively, due to many factors.

The only time in my life Ive heard an audible voice warning in my head was when I was laying naked with this chick. Thought she was great etc. And i heard "leech". Saved my ass.

I also had a dream that my gf cheated on me, it was vivid and poignant. Next day I took a moment, looked her dead in the eyes and asked her unwaveringly if she had. She crumbled right there and admitted it.

Point is there is some part of us that knows these things before we do. If we're silent and receptive I think we can know if we want too.

TheRealEyesWideOpen · 2019-04-11T23:34:45+00:00

All this is par for the course gents. Some of the worst:

1.) 6 year relationship.(Married 2). Went from “your the best thing that ever happened to me” to cheating and monkey branching. Gaslighting me with “you treat me so well, I feel bad about myself”.

2.) 2 year FWB/LTR. Her social media was awash with “most amazing man I ever met”, “he’s the absolute best”. Basically the most tender things you can say. Then sudden breaks up with me saying she been unhappy for so long etc. Tries to manipulate me to move her into my house post-breakup. That will never happen. She want to work on the relationship and then a week later never wants to talk again. 2 days later, she is in a relationship on FB with a guy that’s newly divorced with 4 kids. Likely she’s the reason the marriage broke up; obviously this has been going on for a while.

I hate emotional manipulation. Building you up with over the top sweetness and love just to tear you down.

countinginsolitude · 2019-04-11T23:17:55+00:00

They are all experts at hiding their true selves. Nothing but disloyal, disgraceful sluts.

TheUltimateThug · 2019-04-11T23:35:43+00:00

Of course they’re are good women out there. You’re just not gonna find her because the shitty women out number the good ones. (trust me it isn’t even close) The type of women you’re looking for hasn’t been raised in generations. And if you do find her and god forbid get married everything you loved about her is gonna slowly fade away. Because she already got what she wanted right? (Marriage) So why try anymore. This is how they think. Sex will be used as a bargaining tool, and it will be withheld from you if you don’t satisfy her every need. I’m not exaggerating. And even if you do somehow hit the almighty jackpot/lottery and find the perfect girlfriend and you marry her and she’s the perfect wife. Society is gonna poison her mind to make her believe that honoring her husband is “sexist”. And if not society, then it’ll be her friends, coworkers, family that push her to fuck things up. Whether it be cheating, lying, being manipulative or toxic. All this plus the fact she can ruin your life with dreaded 3 words ( he raped me). I gotta tell ya man the odds are stacked against you high. I’m not saying it’s impossible. Someone will always win the lottery it just won’t be you. (Tough love)

niceguy359 · 2019-04-12T01:29:19+00:00

Stay away from the Filipinas especially

The50Gunner · 2019-04-12T10:22:37+00:00

No, genuine, nice, warm loyal women do not exist. They are all whores, psychopaths, manipulative liars or cheats. Folks get assmad when you point this out, but its just simple, objective observation. One of the accepted definitions of insanity is attempting the same experiment with the same controls over and over again and expecting a different result. How many more times do you need to try the same thing, get the same results, before you realize the results don't change?

40moreyears · 2019-04-12T02:32:16+00:00

Let’s be clear though: going your own way may very well include wanting to enjoy child raising. Paying child support isn’t always a losing proposition and can sometimes be positive in that it will guarantee access to the kid that you, hopefully, wanted. I actually find some joy in helping shape a young man’s view of the state of things, especially if it is my own boy.

That said, divorce rape is a real risk, shared custody getting ugly is a real risk, and raising another man’s child without knowing it is a real risk; if one decides to go the kid route, one must tread carefully. There are rewards and risks. One tool to help mitigate risk would be mandatory paternity testing before any child custody and support proceedings. No matter what. I would even say that EVERY single man, married as well, should ALWAYS get a paternity test. It takes under 2 minutes for a women to become pregnant by a man. That’s a trip to the bathroom. Why risk 20 years or more of deceit when $120 now can save you the headache?

For a man, there is something rather magical about having a baby boy; I hate to think that we cannot experience the joy of shaping a future man and bonding with him because mothers have there own agendas, which frankly, I couldn’t care less about.

klim_milk · 2019-04-12T07:37:15+00:00

Guys are victims of the halo effect. We fall for the assumptions that women feed us, that she's an angel--when she's NOT. That she's playful, when she's playing you. There's so much information collected now that their routine behaviors are a very familiar script.

No, you don't have shitty luck with women. Women have just always been this way. We've just blinded ourselves to it to keep the "peace".

AWALT. Browse he sidebar, especially the glossary. So much will immediately make sense to you.

HeavyMeringue · 2019-04-12T10:10:53+00:00

I had my red-pill moments at 17 with my family,friends and my (at the time) girlfriend.I used to believe in "LOVE",but I moved on from this fast and now I am just running around and drop my pants.I will never be fooled again by the same type of hypocrisy by anybody,that includes friends,family or women.Now,I know about the dark side of female nature and human nature in general.The things I took out of my expirience are these:

1.Focus on your goals,they come around once and you better achieve them or you will become resentful.

2.Never give away very personal INFO on your social circle,they do not need it and they will step on your throat for it if the find a chance(that goes for men and women).

3.Never,ever take a woman's or your friends crap.Whatever it is(she is asking you to do or buy her stupid crap,asks to meet with her ex for "lunch" or "drinks",or shitty attitudes in general),never be afraid to leave them.If you are capable,just smash and dash.As for friends,people come and go all the time,they are more expandible than you realise,you can drop them too.

4.Never,ever let yourself get emotional over shaming tactics,they exist-men and women both use them to get what they want.Call them out on it,make a scene and put them on their place,they will never foget it and you stand up for yourself in that way.

PrismMage · 2019-04-12T04:14:40+00:00

Your post is one of the most sobering posts I have read since I joined this sub. Thanks for sharing. I sincerely hope this means you are going monk mode.

Shimakaze4 · 2019-04-12T08:26:30+00:00

I don't know if any genuine, nice, warm and loyal women exist....and I am now unwilling to take a chance in finding out!

desertkingsidewinder · 2019-04-12T14:05:52+00:00

Dude it is like scientists comparing notes. I've been with around 50 women, one night stands and all included. All of them have been batshit crazy, but these below changed my life in massive ways. DO NOT GET MARRIED!

My first wife:

Banging hot Filipina. She was 17 when we met and I was 19. I met her while in the Navy and we dated 2 years. Got married after two years and brought her back to the states. Got her pregnant that same year. We bought a house together, 2 cars, baby and I had a good job. Dude I was on top of the freaking world! Then I get home one day and she springs a surprise on me. She is going to the Philippines to be with her "sick" aunt. What really happened was she took our daughter to the Philippines and left her there, then came back to the USA and divorced me. This happened in 2009 so it coincided with the great recession. I lost every single dime I owned. I then lost my security clearance after my foreclosure and was reduced to living in veteran assistance homes after I was discharged.

LTR2: Old High School fling I hooked up with upon arriving back in my hometown. Was informed during a night of billiards with my friends that they all had HSV2 because of her. I was wearing rubbers the whole time we dated but she would always want me to lick her finger while I was banging her. I escaped without Herpes but pretty sure HPV came with that package.

LTR3: Vietnamese girl, lots of fun. She was a spinner and weighed 90 pounds or so. I would dick her down 3x a day on average so she was pretty docile. That was until her sister came and started taking her to the gym while I was out working. Yeah that didn't turn out too good. Turns out that she had about 4 dudes on the hook and was using me as Beta Bobby. When I think about it she was prolly getting laid 5x a day or more on average. NO LIE!

Wife2: This is ridiculous, but therapeutic. I moved to the big city after finding Ding Ding's crusty panties in her gym bag. I met a German woman there and we started dating almost immediately. On the 2nd week, her friend flew in and my soon to be wife asked if I'd like to indulge in a threesome. I very clearly hadn't learned that females were evil af, so I obliged. Fast forward a couple of weeks later and my ballsack was the size of a tennis ball. Her friend brought Chlamydia from the fatherland and gave it to both of us. Anyway, we went back to Germany and tied the knot after only 6 months. The next three years were hellish, as I was almost forcefully made to toe the line of her super conservative <nazi> family. Towards the end of our marriage she began going to training seminars to find "work". Little did she know that I had a vasectomy shortly after marriage one and she came home with "GREAT NEWS"!!!! You all guessed it, she was pregnant. I played it off for 9 months as I was stacking money to make my escape. She dragged me to every one of her girlfriends houses to spread the news, and I could see the lying, cunning smiles they all had. They ALL knew what was happening.

This is when I snapped completely dudes. She went for a two week long something or the other in south Germany. I sold the car all of our furniture and pretty much all of her precious cutlery and china off at dirt cheap prices, and on the day of her arrival, 5 days before she was to be induced, I boarded an airplane to the desert southwest and never looked back.

I haven't had an girlfriend since 2015 and have been 100% monk since 2016.

KayZabba · 2019-04-11T23:15:00+00:00

No woman will ever stay forever loyal unless you got money, power, or just a cooking Chad!

nofixie · 2019-04-12T18:39:21+00:00

In short, the answer to your question in the first sentence of the last paragraph, no

The long answer, not in this current world. Go your own way young man. Learn before you have to learn the hard way.

FeatheredVixen · 2019-04-12T02:23:43+00:00

Has it ever came into your mind that all the best people in the world are taken? You live in this idea that all women are heartless and bad. The amount of men doing the same with is also unbearable

I'm sad for you, yes, but is there something wrong with you?

Everyone out there is looking for the perfect person, but never takes time to better themselves.

There are people that live their whole lives as toxic individuals.

But as they always say, same guy/girl, different name.

You subconsciously went for whores. The attractive ones.

evanthemarvelous · 2019-04-12T02:51:23+00:00

only in fiction... or my town(Found my home town has slightly less thots)

2019-04-12T05:09:26+00:00

This is how I see it. All women are the same but every woman masks their true colors differently. Each women wears different costumes to hide their true self but it always unfolds and comes back full circle. I'm on the same boat with you. Although I haven't been in a relationship in a long time, every single girl that I did date in the past were complete whores, psychos, manipulators, or all of the above. I take my daily dose of red pills from going insane, knowing that there isn't one woman out there that is genuine. You're not going nuts. This is just sadly how it is and more sad women don't see anything wrong with them. When they cheat, they don't feel as if they cheated. They feel completely justified in all the shit that they do which is why they're unaware and in-denial. Be strong.

Cyan_Alvein · 2019-04-12T05:14:06+00:00

saying I pick a certain type

AWALT

Do any genuine, nice, warm, loyal women exist??

AWALT

The problem isn't that there aren't anymore genuine female or not, the problem is THE LAW ALLOW THOSE BITCH TO BE WHORE AND ARE AGAINST MEN.

As long as the law are fucked up, don't ever go back to the plantation. Go MGTOW. Never get married. I don't even try to change the law. MRA tried it for more than 50 year and nothing changed.

jeabben · 2019-04-12T12:54:26+00:00

Do any genuine, nice, warm, loyal women exist?? Serious question? All I seem to come into contact with are women like this??

I know a small handful. In almost all cases, they are unhappy but stick with their husbands through thick and thin. Marriage is not a fairy tale. It takes work and sacrifice from both sides. But in the end, having someone who is dedicated means the world to you. I'd love to have a marriage like this but its not worth the risk.

RegiusGeralt · 2019-04-12T14:25:32+00:00

Filipinas are the worst I tell you.

RegiusGeralt · 2019-04-12T14:47:33+00:00

So what happened with the Filipina from Manila?

Title	My experience with women
Author	countinginsolitude
Upvotes	91
Comments	74
Date	April 11, 2019 11:11 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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