Thats it. Im in.

dirtydog113 · 2020-01-05T09:03:37+00:00

Welcome to the rest of YOUR life

boltjamison · 2020-01-05T09:00:48+00:00

Welcome home brother

thruthedoors · 2020-01-05T08:59:17+00:00

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monk2019 · 2020-01-05T09:40:29+00:00

These hoes aint loyal. Good that you decided to join. Dont forget to also watch content on youtube, for example: darius m/coach greg adams are good channels

ClowntownDenisen1234 · 2020-01-05T16:11:29+00:00

Welcome to freedom brother.

You know what I'm doing this Sunday? Whatever I damn well want. Which today involves going to the gym, starting a replay of the Witcher 3 (Netflix series buzz inspired me), and some delicious home cooked meal prep for the week. And noone is gonna get offended that I'm not showering them with all of my time and attention.

Went out with the boys last night too. Stayed out until well past 3 am.. and noone blew up my phone or nagged me when I got home about it. I also could have taken at least two women home if I'd wanted to, but tbh I just wasn't even feeling like the sex was worth all the other bullshit that comes with it.

Yesterday afternoon? I went to the mall and bought a new pair of sneakers ($200), some wireless noise cancelling earbuds ($300), and a new leather jacket ($600), with my own money that I didn't waste on appeasing some woman's greed and materialism.

I'm 38 years old. I defy you to find a single man my age who is attached to a woman and can do any of the things I listed above. Heaven is real brother. You just need to walk through the gate.

maxart1337 · 2020-01-05T11:01:12+00:00

There might be some beers in the fridge, if you stocked it up your damn self. Here's one to you! And welcome!

evergreen35 · 2020-01-05T12:52:41+00:00

I feel your pain. I know how bad it hurts to see a Woman you love sleep with another man or "fall out of love with you". It's EXCRUCIATING.

I saw this video the other day and it helped a little.

That person you created in your head doesn't exist: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c709rGYW8v0

KineRov · 2020-01-05T09:09:21+00:00

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akihonj · 2020-01-05T10:26:13+00:00

In time you'll find peace and prosperity, going mgtow was the very best thing for me, learning to value myself and see my worth outside of any validation that I may seek through a relationship was like the veil dropping away I started to see things so clearly and now I laugh more, longer and harder than I ever did.

I get to laugh as I say no to a woman and watch her mind implode as she can't believe she's being rejected by a man, I get to laugh as I take a woman home for the night knowing that next week there'll be someone new.

Knowing that I am enough for me is like nothing you can imagine and when that happens to you man you'll be able move world's

silly_birb · 2020-01-05T12:55:41+00:00

My advice is to not blame yourself too much about having been a decent person that trusted people.

The difference between being good and naive is the knowledge of others, some friends never show how they are and only talk of superficial stuff and those are people you should neber trust for good reasons; but there are also people that show with their actions some virtues and those can become good allies in life.

The downside of being aware of the female nature is accepting that they will never be up to your moral expectations.
At one point it was clear to me why society and religion kept women under control, with no morals (hookups, abortions, superficiality) there would be no basis for societies since they grow around shared virtues, like it happened for religious ones since forever.

Just think that for women being a slut is acceptable even when christian... if every rule bend then they are no rules.

VlogIt · 2020-01-05T14:47:38+00:00

Welcome.

This just proves that no matter how other men try to warn each other, it really doesn't matter. You can't save a white knight/simp. It's really women who redpill men. Heartbreak in your case.

We men don't recruit. Women does the recruiting for us.

Your own happiness is your own responsibility. If you rely on others to be loyal to you and make you happy, you will live an extremely disappointing life. Don't wait until you are sad to seek enlightenment. Keep the momentum going and do it every single day.

Reflect on your own happiness. Seek out what really makes you happy. Is that new car/gadget really for you, or to impress others? For example, building a gaming PC isn't to show it off to a girl. It's for you to be able to play games really well.

Maybe you like to travel. I travel solo frequently. I love the peace and enjoy my own company.

Solo_and_Simple · 2020-01-05T15:21:07+00:00

I think most men ignore the warning signs. Don't be too hard on yourself. The red flags are there if you pay attention, but most men are content to ignore them, because things feel so good. "Love" is a hell of a drug. Lots of chemicals are distorting your thinking processes.

Anyhow, I'm glad you figured it out before you got married or had a kid with her. A lot of guys don't. At least you dodged that bullet.

ra_filip · 2020-01-05T11:11:11+00:00

Here you will find comfort and peace, brother

Mort1186 · 2020-01-05T11:14:32+00:00

Welcome Bro.

May your road forever be clear

Mort1186 · 2020-01-05T11:15:05+00:00

Check out stardusk on youtube

godword · 2020-01-05T13:33:18+00:00

it's ok

we have all been thru it

and give it time ok

I understand it sounds terrible but

you will start to see WHAT WE ALL SEE IN TIME

KineRov · 2020-01-05T14:48:45+00:00

With distractions gone, let’s plan for big things.

Maladjester · 2020-01-05T17:59:05+00:00

Do not drown yourself in hate. It doesn't look any better on us than it does on radfems. Never expect others to understand you or your lifestyle. Some will, most won't, and them's the breaks. Give yourself something soon. A vacation, a hike, whatever. Something constructive. The important thing is you make all the choices.

Edit: Oh, and welcome aboard.

HWGA_Gallifrey · 2020-01-05T13:28:32+00:00

Get checked for STDs. HIV has a 90 day incubation period, so get another one in 90 days.

ZoloftSanta · 2020-01-05T15:11:23+00:00

Don't be too hard on yourself. Just remember how you are feeling right now if she ever tries to weasel her way back into your life.

Women aren't loyal. They weren't in the past and they really aren't now in the social media era.

Try to set some goals and working on some things that you can get excited about.

StingRayFins · 2020-01-05T16:56:44+00:00

I should have listened to all the opinions and advice yall give each other on here

That's how MGTOW works. We're here because of REAL life experiences. This is why it isn't a place where we just hate or bash on women for no reason like some haters believe. Welcome to MGTOW, stay strong! Remember, never try to convert anyone into MGTOW, you will sound stupid and crazy. Don't mention "MGTOW" either. You can teach or speak about MGTOW philosophy and ideas but don't let them know it's "a thing." Life will humble them and they will adopt MGTOW on their own terms.

rabbit8lol · 2020-01-05T17:48:49+00:00

Bring fourth the collapse.

iCanSayFUIn3Lang · 2020-01-05T19:28:45+00:00

Just think, you could have been married and then she would have all your stuff.

Misogynes · 2020-01-05T09:21:45+00:00

Welcome. I wonder what stopped you from taking in what you read here at the time?

2020-01-05T14:30:20+00:00

Speaking on moving forward:

Take a bit of time to finally listen to yourself - not some societal expectations or gals that want your $ - but to yourself. What do YOU want in life? Where do you want to end up? Once you realize that, you may start moving forward at your own pace, getting closer to your true goals every month, every year.

That's what MGTOW is all about to me. The freedom and the opportunity to go where !you! want to go, instead of blindly chasing the puss you'll never truly have or trying to fit someone else's shoes you don't even like.

Godspeed, man.

ImstarIordman · 2020-01-05T14:52:15+00:00

When you feel up to it you should post what hapen maybe you will help some other poor bastered

Mryoyo99 · 2020-01-05T19:02:42+00:00

It will take time but you will forgive your past self and when you do it willl no longer disgust you. She'll be so far in your rear view you'll do nothing but laugh as you revel in your good fortune.

I would recommend posting your story then, as it is such first hand accounts that contain the most potent of red pills and help those caught on the plantation the most.

WrongTime01 · 2020-01-05T15:51:07+00:00

Just like what we say: men don’t recruit for MGTOW, women do

2020-01-05T18:03:25+00:00

You trusted someone who was unworthy of you and your trust. It happens. Now you know better.

Your life will thrive in so many ways now that it is free of women and their endless drama.

I have relatives dealing with wives who do nothing but shop, a batshit religious mother-in-law, crazy "non-binary" (bi) daughters with abusive boyfriends, a lush daughter-in-law who got her third DUI on New Year's Eve, and a golddigger daughter-in-law who won't get a job to help her husband during his last year of grad school.

That could have been me dealing with that chaos. I am so relieved I MGTOW'ed years ago and no woman is expecting me to fix, pay for, or enable her fucked-up life.

CertainCrow1 · 2020-01-05T18:44:23+00:00

Welcome aboard. I was a lurker myself until just recently. Reality is committed relationships just aren't worth it. Not gonna lie they are great for lime a fe months maybe but in the long run when you look back you realize with every relationship after that short period of time to were generally happier just spending time with friends and family and last but not least time by yourself. Longer term relationships especially marriage destroy your hobbies, friends, self esteem, and wealth.

BTW feel free to share if you ever feel like venting. I think many of us here have has to do that, especially when fort coming here. I started lurking when I could see writing on the wall in my marriage and saw how much of a one way street is been the last decade. Until then I tried to remain optimistic despite knowing I was a doormat. I'm personally just going through divorce atm. Felt like people around here prob getting tired of me posting my story in every other thread but nah they've been pretty cool. Reality is I've only touched tip of the ice berg and everyone comes here with pent up frustration. Good t have a place where people understand

jacketguy · 2020-01-05T21:22:24+00:00

good.. welcome to peace

once u finally process the hurt and anger u will just have truth

u will no longer look at the fantasy of women u will only see the truth

that truth will protect u and help u to make better decisions in many areas because u realize u have had everything inside u all along

we are men who are the initiators, keepers, and givers of love, protection, guidance, commitment, and even “romance” .. women merely receive what we already are, what we already have, and what we already do

we truly do not need a woman’s validation

trematar · 2020-01-05T23:19:25+00:00

You are making the right choice! Basically, from now on, do whatever YOU want to do, not what society or family wants.
As far as females are concerned, here is a short list:
1) The MOST IMPORTANT thing to do is to un-train your heart from SEEKING FEMALE VALIDATION! Our whole lives as boys we are brainwashed by movies & music that "true love exists" and "She's the one!" ... and that "good feeling" you get when a hot woman talks with you .... ALL OF THAT stuff is "Female Validation" ... it could take months or years to ween yourself off these things. However, once you do, you will not feel any stress or guilt over being just a man on his own. You will be "free"! (Also, get a dog or two, they will love you better than a woman will) Women and children are loved "Unconditionally" ... Men are only loved under the condition that they "Provide something". If any part of you slightly disagrees with this, just ask any women if she would date a "Good looking Homeless man" ... 99% of the time they will say no lol.

2) From here you have 2 paths, what some mgtow call "Monk Mode" or "Pump & Dump" ... Monk mode is 100% avoiding all sexual contact with women and all interaction with women. You will be protected from STD's, #metoo, etc. Monk Mode may not be for you, but it is the ultimate way to be free from "Predatory Females" ... btw, read the book "The Predatory Female" it will open your eyes to a lot of things.

3) If you wanna go "Pump & Dump" because you like sex, here are some recommendations.
• Never get married or cohabitate with females! Living with female limits your freedom and with common law marriage/false rape claims, etc, its best to never live with them. If you date a girl, the moment she "wants to take things to the next step/level and move in, dump her and move on, or simply bang hoes/escorts and make sex an event, like going to the gym (Its much cheaper than having a girlfriend anyway)
• Females are NOT your FRIENDS! A female friend only wants you to do "Boyfriend shit" without giving you pussy. If you take females on dates, make them pay their half. You pay for yourself. Enforce your standards and don't give a fuck what they think. They are a bench you want to press, merely a sex tool.

4) Weather you go monk mode or pump and dump, the next step is to be smart with your finances. You will see how much more money you have now that its not wasted on women. I recommend getting "Dave Ramsey's Financial Peace University" Book/DVD's if you don't know how to invest money. Or if you do, great, I hope your ROIC goes through the roof one day!

5) Stay logging into this sub daily/weekly and check in, you will always find support here and tell your other friends about the MGTOW life and how there is really no benefit to get married anymore. "The only way to win is to not play".

Congratulations on your freedom and escaping divorce-rape!

nhendren23 · 2020-01-06T02:39:59+00:00

Welcome to the party, pal.

The rules are simple, you do you. My advise to you is to find out, for yourself, what that truely means. Cheers!

hemang_verma · 2020-01-05T11:43:58+00:00

Go for it.

hepatitispiglet · 2020-01-05T17:27:17+00:00

Welcome bro, stay focused on you. Continue your education if you’re into it, or just stacking enough money for YOUR future. Live it up man

FreezyArigato · 2020-01-05T17:39:37+00:00

Pick a hobby you like, save up to buy something you want or plan to travel somewhere. Whatever it is, it's you living your life for YOU. Enjoy, friend.

AdrianoWerneck · 2020-01-06T09:15:44+00:00

I do not think you are a MGTOW yet. You came here out of reactionary spite to a life event. This is a wohle philosophy and there is a lot of content that explain that multiple reasons for its existence. Check out Colttaine on Youtube. He has the best videos about it.

Tim-jasper-jim · 2020-01-06T20:27:10+00:00

Same. I'm in.

hazeyli · 2020-01-05T10:54:33+00:00

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Title	Thats it. Im in.
Author	CantThinkLikeThis
Upvotes	249
Comments	55
Date	January 5, 2020 8:56 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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