The idea that “You just aren’t good enough” is constantly pushed by this gynocentric society and is further reinforced by commercials, films, TV shows, news, pick-up, and the likewise. This is a tactic used to keep people invested in this long running scam we call society (Also an actual tactic used by pyramid schemes and other cults). What they’ll do is promise someone a benefit in exchange for goods, then when you give them what they wanted and their side of the promise hasn’t been met they’ll find a way to reverse it back on you; ex: “You aren’t holding frame well enough” “You aren’t putting in the work” “You aren’t dressed well enough”. What this does is it leaves you feeling shameful and unworthy to make you feel like you must try harder and invest even more into the scam.

In this sense the promise will be a woman. All a man’s life he’s led to believe women the highest value and that getting married one day is a privilege that all men should aspire to reach. This conditioning that continues to be reinforced by society is tricking men into believing that if one doesn’t get married he has failed at life no matter what other achievements he’s accomplished. Pussy has become the greatest life achievement in today’s society. The majority of men have been conditioned for a large portion of their life to believe so, in which most cases it becomes unconscious and influences everything that men do. The behavior, the mindset, the career, the car; you name it.

If you have to dumb yourself down and hide your interests to be found attractive to a woman that means something is wrong with her. You didn’t say the wrong thing, but you just so happen to converse with an anxiety-ridden, asocial, entitled, and irresponsible person that is unable to uphold a simple conversation. You are not in the friend zone because you’re ugly or weird it’s because nowadays women have an unrealistically high standard. A large percent of them believe they should end up with the 1% of men because they simply have a vagina. The marriage didn’t end because you aren’t good enough; she has an unrealistic expectation of what she “deserves”. Stop trying to become good enough for them. Pursue your own interests; start back doing things you stopped doing in fear or in anticipation of impressing/repelling women.

We were led to believe that if we just bought that new Porsche or got that raise we could then finally get the “oneitis” we want so bad, but until that time comes our lives are incomplete. We convinced ourselves that something is wrong with the way we are naturally. We’re convinced we need money or status to achieve the perceived life goal of obtaining a woman. We stop doing things that we enjoy because women don’t find it attractive, we put each other down, we kill each other, get jobs and/or leave jobs; the list goes on and on. We only do this out of inferiority. We believe we aren’t good enough but the truth is there is nothing wrong with you.

We we’re led here because we were tired of being scammed and then have the finger pointed at us. We realized that there is nothing wrong with us and we are no longer to blame. MGTOW is a way out of the lies, the scams, and the trickery that is modern day marriage culture. We are finding a better way to live our lives. We are cooperative individuals, meaning we go our own way but stand together. Not to sound cheesy or brotalkish but whenever one of us commits to MGTOW we are weakening the gynocentric culture one by one whether it is intentional or not.

Don’t be the scapegoat, Feel no guilt, GYOW.