Warped dating scale

strongandhappy · 2018-09-17T04:17:06+00:00

If you want a fit woman these days you're after the top 10%. Add either intelligence or personality and now you're hunting unicorns.

Total_Station · 2018-09-17T05:05:55+00:00

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SleepyMethHead · 2018-09-17T04:18:40+00:00

Ur only missing out on flings if you want them. Anything further than that, good ole hypergamy will eventually kick in.

cacamalaca · 2018-09-17T06:09:03+00:00

I assume you live in the USA? The game is completely out of whack here, and this coming from someone who lives in downtown Boston with a young and relatively healthy population. I repatriated recently after living the past decade abroad, and what you see is substantially different than what is normal in Western countries outside the USA.

My guess is that the market is skewed because a lower percentage of women invest the necessary effort to maintain healthy weight past their mid 20's. You know, when they hit the wall, and must devote EQUAL(ity) amounts of energy as men to look good.

somuchluv2give · 2018-09-17T06:58:17+00:00

I would say that in general, semi chads and normie chads are dating/fucking girls 2-3 points below their SMV, and occasionally will get a girl around equal or just one point below (which generally results in a relationship). The hyperchads (I’m talking all the six sixes AND have dark triad AND actively game women AND have jobs/hobbies that women find irresistible) are all hoarding and sharing the 8s and 9s (I don’t believe in 10s). I have seen first hand evidence from phones of hyperchads, these guys have literally hundreds of girls they can choose from. Hundreds. Now let’s say you’re an SMV 9 girl, u can easily get 3-4 hyperchads as fuckbuddies and just rotate them (as they rotate her). Occasionally she’ll get short term commitment from a hyperchad. She can Supplement all her other needs with beta orbiters. So instead of relying on one guy (a boyfriend) these girls assemble a literal team of men to satisfy all her needs (and usually they have a boyfriend or two as well).

The most common times I see a couple that are close to a looksmatch, is when the guy is 8+ in looks and has a job that boosts his wealth/status. For example a good looking guy that is also a drug dealer, or a DJ, or fighter etc. These days it’s not enough to just have chad looks and a boring job, that will mostly only get u girls 2 points below u. To get a girl “on your level” u have to have the chad looks and a “bad boy” status boost either through your job or hobby.

ZomCom13 · 2018-09-17T04:22:43+00:00

If those are the only girls that are obtainable, I do like I always do.

I sit out on the "game," save my money, my time, my sanity, and my health. If the dating market "improves," I'd be the first in line (maybe).

Ultramegasaurus · 2018-09-17T06:22:18+00:00

If I got a dollar for every fat girl/normal-weight guy couple (below 30) I see, I'd be rich.

Baldrbaldr · 2018-09-17T07:02:02+00:00

While visiting San Diego, I went out to the Gaslamp alone. For those who don't know, the Gaslamp is the main tourist area. Anyway, I was actually meeting up with firends, but had some time to kill getting there, so I took my sweet time walking. I noticed so many women who think themselves to be all that. I did the one thing that truely makes one invincible: I didn't look at them. Yes, something so simple can actually drive them nuts. I noticed all these glares out of the corners of my eyes like "why aren't you giving me the attention I deserve!?!" It was glorious. I'd like to say I didn't care, but I did... and I enjoyed it.

caem123 · 2018-09-17T11:45:58+00:00

London was likely the biggest shocker in my life seeing land whales with slim guys. I literally lost count over a few days. I told my daughters if they get fat when older to just move to London.

Itisforsexy · 2018-09-17T09:43:58+00:00

4-6 level land whales

If she's a landwhale, she isn't even a 1.

caem123 · 2018-09-17T11:43:20+00:00

Yes, many rural areas or small cities have out-of-whack dating scales. But even big cities like San Francisco are out-of-whack in favor of women. Usually, I'd mention cities with more women or more beautiful women, yet in these places women will just date older men or act more promiscuous, so they wreck those dating scales for normal guys.

SoulracktheDevourer · 2018-09-17T06:30:06+00:00

They probably used to be 8s then let themselves go, takes awhile to notice gradual change

TheLastMgtow · 2018-09-17T11:15:31+00:00

Ive seen this too. I think its an adaptation. Dudes know a 9/10 is getting 1000's of followers on instagram and etc... 9/10's are only good to fuck for a few weeks, and even that will probably give plenty of trouble, thats why you dont see that often. So dudes are doing what they always did, choose the easy way, so they get a fat chick that puts effort into the relationship and has no immediate options to cheat. If she does anything wrong he can leave her quickly too and replace her. If he finds a 9/10 he can bang her too and still have the beta girl if he wants. Its almost like the alpha fucks beta bucks, but the dude gets almost nothing, mostly expenses and headaches even if she is a 2/10, she will still be a woman.

cleats4u · 2018-09-17T11:51:29+00:00

If he sticks around one day that land whale is going to be a moody, cranky bitch. He will be under constant threat of divorce rape and poverty at gun point by the federal/state government. Was she worth it for even a minute...nope! Now let me go home and play some video games.

2018-09-17T12:09:01+00:00

I was thinking about that as well.

2 days ago I went near out local shopping mall becaus there is a fairly big park with a lake and all that, pretty relaxing as soon as the sun goes away.

As soon as I get near the area I immediately notice lots of young couples as expected, obviously most dudes didnt even want to be there it was pretty noticeable on their faces haha, but hey, princess wanted to thats all it matters.

Anyway after seeing a lot of couples it was pretty clear a vast majority had the guy looking way better than the chick, most of them were slightly overweight or straight up fat while the dudes werent. Plus even face wise there was a difference.

Now, obviously i can only speak about looks i havent talked to any so theres that.

I can imagine some of this extra large princesses being funny, smart or whatever attracted their partner in a relationship but ALL of them?

It makes you wonder why so many young dudes/men would accept that.

kaczan3 · 2018-09-17T12:31:11+00:00

Add up the prices of clothes, colognes and gym membership, and the sex doll is practically free now.

legitimatebacon · 2018-09-17T13:58:48+00:00

No such thing as a 6 land whale. Overwieght gets up to a 6, landwhales are 3 max, maybe 4 if they have their shit together.

Madxgoat · 2018-09-17T14:29:17+00:00

This leaves me AS a 5 male if im lucky with none. I wonder am i here because im ugly, or have i given up because the only women in my league are usually trashy or druggies and drunks, abusive or all of the above. Have i ever had a relationship that is emotionally fulfilling. Where each Partner brings something and compliments each others strengths. No never. Also im in my mid to late twenties now. Which means any woman i come across likely has a kid or kids by other men.

Tookthemethpill · 2018-09-17T14:52:24+00:00

Just hot enough to bang, but just ugly enough so Giga Chad doesn't want her.

tidho · 2018-09-17T15:09:25+00:00

This math would suggest there is a much higher proportion of men in the upper tiers than woman. I wonder if that's really the case.

bkrugby78 · 2018-09-17T15:29:51+00:00

I’m guessing they undervalue themselves and take what they can get. Lot of women who are 2’s think they deserve 10’s.

omg_ppl_are_stupid · 2018-09-17T16:08:34+00:00

Forget dating, try marriage. I live on a cul de sac with a very outgoing group of families. We all get along really well, hanging out, the guys all make a boatload of money. Stay at home wives for the most part, the ones that do work, work because they want to not because they have to(strong and independent). over half the dudes are in great shape, not built like society expects, but highly competitive in the sports that they participate in, no beer gut, and of course they're aging and staying in great shape. the women............... NOT ONE is in good shape. my wife included, holy fuck balls, most of the women have the kankles and the super large flappy arms. None of these women put much into themselves except and extra helping of food. this shit is ridiculous. dating is where you're going to find the women in their best.... which is still shit when i go out. Both men and women have got to start trying harder, this is stupid..... either which way i wouldn't date some chick if she paid me a million dollars.... fuck that.

redditreddit81 · 2018-09-17T17:41:33+00:00

Women are generally fatter than men. Overweight guys know they are not attractive so are more inclined to hit the gym and diet to do something about it. Overweight women pretend they are 'curvy' and attractive so don't do shit. Also with enough thirsty simps ready to stick it in them anyway they don't have to.

AntiRegios · 2018-09-17T04:15:59+00:00

I think of dating/relationships/marriage like this: I have my goals, my plans, my agenda. If I can find a girl who will submit, follow, and support me in my journey she can stay. I have a gf currently and she seems to be quite in tune. Ive already let her know my plans and that I wouldnt get married without a preen up. I told her that following my oath doesnt mean she doesnt get to follow her dreams, it just means that she cant interfere. I know you didnt ask for dating advice, but I just like to point that out. Some men think that mgtow is about going through life alone (female companion wise). I see it more as knowing your way and not deviating from it because of a girl, not taking a path that avoids women. Women can be the devil, but only if you let them. Dont forget whose in charge of you,

Title	Warped dating scale
Author	Total_Station
Upvotes	122
Comments	55
Date	September 17, 2018 4:01 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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