Hello guys, I discovered your community just a while ago and I wanted to tell you my story. I am using a throw-away as there is too much personal stuff attached to my regular account, I am not a troll though.

As you can see from the title I would refer to myself as a chad or chad-lite maybe. I know that I have a fairly pretty face, broad shoulders, a good frame and bone structure, I am 6’4 and my penis has a decent size. Girls usually rate me between 8.5-9.5. I am not giga-chad but girls like my.

In addition to my above-average looks, I am blessed with a mind that seems to work well in school, university and business-settings. I have always been best in class, went to an elite-university and started a career in the industry you best know from wolf of wall street. In my mid-twenties, I had six figure (euro) salary and a nice, big apartment in the center of a major European city.

I am close to 30yrs now and during the last decade I have met plenty of girls. I met them in clubs, on tinder or while doing business. I dated many of them, usually for ONS or FWB. I only had one long-term relationship in my life and that was during my undergrad studies. Subconsciously I probably always avoided having more than a sexual relationship with girls. Lately I became more and more unhappy with my lifestyle, the dates and women bored me. I found that even after meeting so many women (probably more than 100) on an intimate (and also personal) basis I have not met one girl that

- I found actually interesting

- That asked me questions that gave me the feeling that she is honestly interest in my life

- I got a long as good as with any of my say 10 best male friends

- That I would like spending a holiday with

- Would in my view be a good mother

- ….

This list could go on forever. In general I have the feeling that women these days are only focused on themselves, how they look, how their life is and how they are perceive by others. I had girls telling me on our first date on a walk “I would like you to buy as a house like this when we marry” and I have seen so many things girls do for sugar daddys in the banking industry. When girls took me out to meet their friends they were always ridiculously concerned with what cloth I wear and that may hair looks nice. They sometimes told me to not talk about my wild drug-infused university time but about banking and how much money I make. They just wanted to show their friend what a good catch they made. It had nothing to do with what kind of a person I am.

I now have the feeling that the odds of finding someone that actually cares about you the same way you care about her are so much not in our favor that it is not worth trying anymore. After all those years of multiple dates a week I don’t even like the sex with these women anymore. To be honest, I never really liked it. Its always the same. Its boring, sometimes you just have the feeling they let you do it so you become their sponsor later on. Most girls are not into sex as much as you think (not even with a chad), they use it as a tool, they are not curious, don’t actively try something new. You have to bring up the topic. The expectation that the man always have to do the first step is another thing that really started to bother me.

To get to the point, I thought about it a long time and I have decided not to meet women anymore. It is a waste of time. I do not want marriage or children with any of the women I met. Women just cost time and money. They slow down my career, my sportsmanlike ambition and my love for literature (and video games of course ;)). I feel so good now after making this decision. I feel the freedom in the pic that is pinned at the beginning of this sub. I also want to give a heads up to all the guys that think they are incels or part of MGTOW because they can’t get women: It’s not worth it, not even for chad. You might even be the lucky ones because you swallowed the red pill years earlier and saved a lot of energy.

- English is not my mother tongue so forgive me grammatical errors -

TL;DR

I went from Chad and active part of the dating scener to MGTOW because even after meeting tons of women, I did not find one girl genuinely interested in me. I have not found one that I would prefer spending time with compared to any of my good male friends. They all just costed me time, money and ambition.

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