Women hate introvert men.

Wide-Brick · 2020-07-27T03:00:42+00:00

They hate introverts because we are extremely hard to "read". When we DO talk, we ask questions that they don't know how to answer because they have a hard time positioning to manipulate us.

It's actually a good thing.

Wisdom_of_a_Khan · 2020-07-27T03:46:53+00:00

Depends on the Introvert and depends on the woman.

An Introvert at the top of his game that has a large circle of friends, is handsome, has a successful career will do just as well as an extrovert with all of those things.

Where it gets complicated is when you have an introvert that average looking, successful, with very few friends. Women are attracted to status, and since introverts aren't likely to flaunt their success they have a form of thot camouflage. It also turns into hell for some of them too, I've known guys that are decent looking and very successful but hate the idea of approaching women. The few times they do get set up, they are so timid they don't talk about themselves, they just let the woman blabber on and she leaves the first date thinking he's a crazy person. One of them in particular would kill to have a relationship with a girl, he's never had one and is the lonely type, but can't pull it off because even though he's more successful and does more interesting shit than anyone else i've ever known. He can't bring himself to actually talk about it with confidence, which of course gets him labeled as a boring loser.

On the other side of things, the type of woman plays a role here too. There are women who like dating extroverted guys that are always out doing things and have massive friend circles, being with an extrovert gets them more attention, She can be the girlfriend of the guy who's the life of the party, There are a lot of benefits for a woman dating an extrovert. On the introvert side of things there are women i've seen that had a 6th sense about this, they go hunt for guys that are introverted, or anti social, or loners. The major draw here as far as I can tell is if they can find a guy that's estranged from his family, has few friends, and spends most of his time alone is akin to guys going after fat girls. They are easy targets (unless they are MGTOW). If he has no one else in his life it will be very easy for her to control him, she doesn't have to do the work on slowly peeling him away from his friends, and creating divisions in his family so she can have his full attention. That's already done, he has no one else to give attention to other than her. As Psychotic and Abusive as it is, i've seen women do this, and it usually ends with the guy being completely destroyed emotionally because she's his entire world, and if she cheats and/or walks out he feels like his life is over, and in some sad cases they decide to end it because of the situation.

well-i · 2020-07-27T03:14:19+00:00

I believe as introvert we're very comfortable inside our minds and they cannot invade our space very easily. Such as the vapid tactics they use to manipulate other men with

Redhood616 · 2020-07-27T05:16:15+00:00

Depends entirely on looks, as is usually the case with most women.

If you’re introverted and ugly, they’ll call you a creep & want nothing to do with you.

If you’re introverted and decent looking, they’ll call you shy & wait for you to approach them.

If you’re introverted and good looking, they’ll call you mysterious and actively approach you.

euthanatos777 · 2020-07-27T04:26:48+00:00

Women hate intellectual men. Hence why Tesla preferred the company of a bird.

BetelgeuseDeux · 2020-07-27T03:50:44+00:00

Trust me, if you're wealthy and/or good-looking, they don't care about any of your other personality traits, including introversion.

Proof-System · 2020-07-27T03:20:09+00:00

At least half the population are introverts. Most high achievers are introverts, including Steve Jobs and Barack Obama. Women don't hate introverts. You may be just withdrawn or have poor social skills, and need to get out and talk to people more. This will help you a lot in life even as a MGTOW.

Holymanbaba · 2020-07-27T05:07:09+00:00

I'm a heavy introvert and know what you mean

Women worship the physical. They can't see deeper than that.

SniffSnatch · 2020-07-27T06:34:28+00:00

Women hate average or unattractive introverted men. Thats not the case for chad tho but u r mostly right

Zaanix · 2020-07-27T15:01:41+00:00

Women: exists.

Me: Laughs in INTJ.

Introverts are dangerous in the eyes of women for a few reasons:

Socializing with others and their relationships isn't that pressing of a need and can enjoy the silent treatment nigh indefinitely.
Typically they sit back and observe their surroundings. That means they see what you do with perfect clarity.

There are other reasons, but they either become vague or only apply to some introverts and not others.

Jolly_Paramedic2987 · 2020-07-27T08:15:08+00:00

A question for other introverts out there, doesnt it piss you of when someone asks why you look so shy or so neverous. However i to brush it off its not worth getting into a fight for something so petty. Sometimes you have to pick your fights and its not worth a life or death situation over this from personal experience.

Nathaniel66 · 2020-07-27T11:13:40+00:00

I am declared introvert. Some of my friends were surprised when i told them, but i assured them i put a huge pressure on quality of my friends rather than quantity.

As for women...who cares :D

I_am_Groot69 · 2020-07-27T10:52:49+00:00

I am a introvert myself and I have a cycle of girls get interested in me -> finds out I am too analytical -> gives up eventually.

Man and women are mostly animals and are governed by biology.

Being an introvert and analytical is a good way to withdrawn from dating.

EatPussynarian · 2020-07-28T11:43:25+00:00

I’m not an introvert, i just find most people boring ;)

ProcedurallyCreated · 2020-07-27T08:39:12+00:00

I don't think hate is the proper word. They mostly ignore you if they think you have nothing to offer. I've attracted various girls without oppening my mouth just by impressing them in a field they like. You gotta be good looking tho. Extraversion is a plus.

prbonfanti · 2020-07-27T12:19:43+00:00

Introverts are reflexive, think first , talk later, this make harder to manipulate, introverts feels bad at crowds, women are hive mind, introverts when deal with people prefer quality than quantity, and you the quality of actual women, women like to hang with fuckboys because of popularity, introverts are not popular so women keep away, the judgment of her friends control much of her choices....

NeverNeverLandIsNow · 2020-07-27T14:24:55+00:00

I have always been somewhat introverted but was definitely less introverted when I was young, like 20-30's, as I get older I find that I am more introverted, I just don't want to spend a lot of time socializing as in general I find it a waste of time and only mildly fulfilling, usually I would rather be reading a good book or riding my motorcycle or something else interesting.

As far as women I think the introversion can at times work in your favor, especially when you want to avoid women but also some women seem to be attracted to introverted people, maybe they seem mysterious or maybe they seem easy to control (not usually the case introverts are often harder to control imo as introverts often have an internal locus of control, which makes them a little harder to manipulate). The best thing about getting older for me is I have almost lost my ability to give a crap what others think of me and that is almost like a superpower, I live my life how I want, and if others don't like it then that is their problem not mine, in general I find most people seem to respect that, and I just ignore those that don't anyway.

It is a relief when you begin to realize that most of the world could give a rats ass not only about you but about anyone but themselves, once you realize this your decisions seem to come easier and you realize you have been trying to impress people who are not worthy of impressing.

Introvert82 · 2020-07-27T21:54:56+00:00

I disagree. Women prefer confident men, introvert or extrovert doesn't really matter. Probably extroverts more than introverts, but still. I've never had too much trouble getting women as an introvert, so I think your statement is wrong.

AzN1337c0d3r · 2020-07-28T05:28:14+00:00

It's really simple actually. Introverts don't have a lot of friends so they don't show status. Women like men with status.

IceyBear988 · 2020-07-28T10:01:32+00:00

Many people's misconception of introvert is "they're nerds who cannot have friends". Bitch please, introverts have friends but introverts prefer solidarity and "ME" time over "WE" time. Introverts keeps a few very very trustworthy friends close and segregate the rest as "Friends" in another compartment.

Women in general is shallow thus they don't know what topic to hit you off, so the smart ones avoid embarrassing themselves because they know you'll see their bullshit and the dumb ones will gun off their mouth and embarrass themselves thus exposing their stupidity.

bobbiscotti · 2020-07-28T11:48:24+00:00

I think introverted women can like introverted men; it’s certainly happened for me. I’ve had one extrovert girlfriend and it was really nice in a way because I didn’t have to do any work socially; she did all the talking and I was allowed into social groups by virtue of being in a relationship with her. I basically didn’t talk, and people accepted me.

But really: if women are avoiding you, take it as a freedom. It’s pretty hard to get yourself away from them sometimes, and the “feelings” will stick with you and distract you from greater things.

You won’t find any level of happiness from a woman that compares to what you can get from achieving something great. That’s what’s great about being an introvert. You can focus on something like that, without having to be social.

Sudden_Mountain · 2020-07-30T09:33:35+00:00

Yo I am an introvert. After graduating high school in 2006, I went to Norway for higher studies. I noticed damn hot chicks, but I was mgtow since 2002(I didn't know 'mgtow' but I had the mindset). After getting my degree, I lived in Amsterdam for 4 yrs. There, I banged bitches every week. Damn, getting sucked off felt so good. I have never gone on a date, and it feels so good to be an introvert. I spend my money on whatever I want, however I want, and chicks usually think twice before asking me for anything because I always sit with a poker face, I speak only when necessary, and my voice, as I trained it back in 2004, is very deep.

silly_birb · 2020-07-27T07:59:03+00:00

It's not true, you are mistaking being introverted with "not having a dominant personality".

Women can smell an man insecure in an environment and as the animals we all are, that's a marker of biological weakness.

Title	Women hate introvert men.
Author	APHAbaghodler
Upvotes	175
Comments	60
Date	July 27, 2020 2:55 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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