MGTOW and TRP were so right about women. I've made this new account to admit how wrong I was. Never commented on anything before but I visited the debate subs and TRP out of curiosity before. I always used to laugh you off as paranoid and delusional but two weeks ago I had my eyes opened.
My story: I was flirting with this girl I met through one of my hobbies. Things were going pretty fantastically, we had the same hobbies, same interests for books and music, we constantly talked, and she would reach out to me more than half the time. We had even planned on going to a musical together.
So after a couple of weeks of successful hardcore flirting I finally decided to bluntly tell her how I felt and ask her out on a real date. She ended up replying that she had a boyfriend. We had been flirting for three weeks and she only just decided to let me know she was seeing someone. I was shocked. I immediately thought of a saying I had seen around Reddit earlier and had dismissed, "She's not yours, it's just your turn."
I started reading all the recommended posts on here and in TRP. I blew through all of The Rational Male, TFM, Stardust, and, my personal favorite, Coltaine. (Side note, if anyone has any more videos like Coltaine where he provides links to all his studies I would love some more.) Been listening to them all at work, in the gym, ect. I put aside all of my planned entertainment to delve more deeply into what I had previously dismissed.
I told her that I didnt feel comfortable with her as I didnt want to cross a line and she hasnt stopped begging me to talk to her since. They really just do want to have it all, even more so when you tell them no. I'm very upset and disgusted with women at the moment. I see their hypergamy (that's the right word right?) everywhere. My mom, my sister, all my female friends. I realize I'm stuck in that 'Red Pill Rage' state and Im just glad to have found this community so I'm not stuck being gaslight by the world. I'm sorry for every time Ive scoffed at RP knowledge.
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Thanks dude. It really does suck. I thought I was way more open minded to learning but I guess I just refused to look at all the stats. It's kind of mind blowing to me how no one in the mainstream talks about all this.
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I've always been knowledgable about the world being apathetic towards individuals, but this is basically active antipathy.
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Holy shit. I almost pissed myself from how terrible that would be.
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Biology is a bitch and a half. That's why I'd rather just go monk mode. I dont think I'm mentally strong enough otherwise.
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I don't want to be that kind of person. Just because women treat us horribly and use us for their own ends doesnt mean we have to. I'd rather just go monk mode and ignore them all.
Besides, that sounds like a lot of work to me. I'd rather go to the gym or do something productive than waste my time on someone that's acting like a thot. I think I'll go pick up an instrument.
Thanks for the advice about shit tests though. It feels like they're everywhere.
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Oof. I actually physically cringed from reading that.
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The scariest shit is that I think guys like you two are rare...I bet the norm is to validate the attention seeking, or encourage monkey branching.
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Welcome, brother.
We all make mistakes and we all thought the same thing as you before getting redpilled.
At least you learned your lesson and not in the hard way which is a big win.
I would recommend read the Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar and the Predatory Female by Rev Lawrence Shannon. It is a must.
And take a daily dose of red pill in this sub to keep yourself in check.
And always remember, AWALT.
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Ha, I love the irony of your username. Seems like the people here have a dark sense of humor.
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I went through a bunch of his stuff and Im not a fan of his cadence. It is very easy to lose attention when his is all monotone
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Gotta recalibrate my dreams to no longer include a family
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I cannot wait til I become completely apathetic
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