Value is an abstract concept, has different definitions. It's measured subjectively. Every man has value. You have value, its innate. But for many of us, its potential value. Because its not been unlocked or accessed by your own consciousnesses. When you realize it --unlock it-- you feel differently and then act stronger. People feel it, they respect it, some are intimated by it. It has been referred to as self-esteem. People can smell it, detect it. It is a seldomly acknowledged characteristic. It capable of refining and exuding. It becomes a tool, powerful one. Value cant be built externally, money, status, can be acquired without merit, for some people. but you cant buy value..sorry, no way. Its the core psychological element that promotes TRP success.

If a women choose to marry you, its because to her see saw some value. even so, that value cant be true from a womens perspective because she evaluates your value differently, and it's different for each girl. Your personal value transcends others, because only you can determine your value. You set the market rate for your attention, time, or interaction. i no longer judge others value i just focus on my own development. So when i mean build value, i mean you can build it within your mind, you own self assessment. You can start by identifying that part of you that ypu connect deeply with and you build on that, like, expanding experiences, new situations. Sometimes it's as simple as acknowledging a personal strenght and then engaging in activities or interactions related to that strenght.

anyway brief musing for the evening...your wife will treat you the way you 'demand" to be treated.

Side note: people act towards things they value...you can see it or not.