Daddy Issues (Ladies Edition)

oak_water · 2017-11-03T22:43:21+00:00

I always tell her I’m proud of the work she’s done

This was my mistake. I didn't do this enough. Gotta layer the comfort and feels back in after you've cut the cord. Not because you need to in order to get her approval. But because you are the almighty husband/daddy figure, showing his pleasure with his doting queen.

88Will88 · 2017-11-04T01:54:10+00:00

How many women have you had significant relationships with? Where does this knowledge come from? Basically all women and all human beings are unsuited for monogamy because humans are not monogamous. Any woman can be great to have in a relationship if you as a man are strong enough in your frame and leadership. I would say that depending on the type of relationship you want (we do not all want the same thing) then women with different backgrounds can bring different things to the table. It seems to be pointless to me that you give instructions that only 1 out of 4 different family backgrounds are suitable for an LTR. I blasted a guy in TRP for writing a similar post to this about girls with daddy issues. All girls have issues, they are all the same to me. I either like them enough to hold onto for a little while (fling/ ONS or STR) or a long while as a plate/ LTR. I have had women from all of the above categories and they all treated me just fine. Maybe you need to look at yourself rather than create a shaker box of categories of women to avoid. You are creating buffers and disqualifying yourself from some great relationships due to your inability to lead. This is a long winded but deeply flawed post. It also signals a belief in unicorns.

hudsonclay · 2017-11-03T22:58:41+00:00

I’m a absent father second side type. MANLY PRESENCE NEEDED

red-sfpplus · 2017-11-03T21:38:18+00:00

If your not #1 then your the first loser.

Good stuff OP

AmericanViking64 · 2017-11-03T23:19:34+00:00

I have a question.

My wife is just like #1, and from time to time she can rant about her distant yet very "alpha" father. Not excessively just once in a while and there has always been a sort of luke warm relationship between them since Ive known her. Shes been with me since we were 18/19 (now 37/38).

Things are great in the bedroom but I'm running out of dirty things to say to her in bed, and I get the impression she would get off on it if I told her to "call me daddy".

On one hand I think thats more telling about me than her, but we have 2 girls as well and when I understood how they looked up to me, I understood my wife a lot better.

Does anyone have any experience with this?

pielicker · 2017-11-04T00:57:10+00:00

Fuck, I wish I knew all this before I got married.

denisgomesfranco · 2017-11-04T01:57:10+00:00

I'll take category number 2, please.

but they want to do so in an attempt to give that child the family she never had

Explains a lot about why the hell my wife so desperately wants babies.

If you don’t want kids, stay away from this type of woman

Well... maybe if I had that info about 5 years ago :D (but no, we don't have any kids; also, I'm working on getting a vasectomy.)

you filling it may instill a fear of losing a man once again

I noticed something along these lines before learning about RP. Now it makes much more sense.

Great post, OP!

freshona · 2017-11-04T11:31:11+00:00

How do you know?

_degenerate_ · 2017-11-04T02:21:29+00:00

When you get roasted on TRP for posting a butthurt DEERfest, retreat to safer ground and churn out some bro-science.

Come on man, this is weak. No basis in psychology, evolutionary biology, or anthropology. You write this with nothing but your own limited experiences with women as a guide and use a broad brush to paint the female gender to fit your model.

You're acting no different than the other dude selling tshirts.

SteelSharpensSteel · 2017-11-03T20:57:07+00:00

Heavy psychological stuff here. I'm not a mental health professional, so don't feel qualified to comment.

I would only note that the Category 1 women that you mention, you state this: "They ask for a lot of direction as they are turning to you for leadership in all areas" - I can think of a number of men here who have wives that are working professionals or business owners. I think that your statement is correct, they do turn to you for leadership, however it is because you are a man, not because you are their daddy.

"Daddy is used as a term for the man she wants to please and submit to, be that man." <-- I don't see it, but maybe others do. Seems too complex for me. Oedipus complex. And incestuous.

Title	Daddy Issues (Ladies Edition)
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	15
Comments	23
Date	November 3, 2017 8:42 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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