"I made her laugh" by being 'cocky-funny'.

"She said I look good" after working out 3 days a week and 'owning my shit'.

"big dicks hurt and my small one is perfect" she says. Ok the last one was a joke. I hope she doesn't say that to you.

These are all examples of progress that you think you're getting somewhere. Let me make this reaaaal clear to you buddy. She doesn't give a fuck.

We are talking about YOUR WIFE right now, the same one who doesn't like giving you blowjobs and only fucks you on your birthday. Now you 'manned up', went to the gym, got a new haircut and lifestyle maybe even you got a raise at your job. Guess what? None of that matters. Why?

Because you already fucked it up.

You can't come back from her not respecting you to her respecting you. It won't work, and even if you CAN find a way, it will be so much effort and work you may as well quit your full time job, except then that b**** will divorce you.

So, Mark_V_1995, if you're so smart then what can you do?

I don't know you... but here's my advice. Stop trying to fix things right now. Don't frame your actions as being related to her in any way. You wanna know a secret? Actually there is a way to get your wife to respect you again. You're not gonna like it and you're probably not ready to hear this. I'm gonna say it anyway because I want you to stop being so miserable.

When other girls are attracted to you, so will your wife be.

Ergo: your wife has to SEE that OTHER WOMEN are attracted to you and want to f*** you.

Working out, making more money, all that other stuff is just bullsh**t.

There's only one thing you absolutely *have* to be doing...

and I'll be covering how you can do that in my next post. Stay tuned.