Every third or fourth cycle, the hamster gets so wound up, it does backflips. It threw out something yesterday, and I don't know if I should ignore it or change my approach.

Background: I'm only 2 months into the pill, but have great progress so far. Read most of the sidebar, still working on it. Lifting has given positive visible results. I went from lurking in /r/deadbedrooms having sex 1 - 2 times a month to going 3 - 4 times a week, and she's into it. At least it seems that way...

So I've been trying to incorporate the 10 second kiss, and it's been hard. She has been giving me pecks on the lips for so long that I remind her that I do not accept that as a kiss anymore. This pisses her off about as much as a peck pisses me off, but progress has been made.

Yesterday I try to kiss her and just get a peck. I try again and she tells me how she hates when I do that and how she feels like she can't breath. I shrug and walk off. Before I know it, the hamster is on fire and I'm told that I only use her for sex and only to make myself happy.

I've been grabbing at her lately, telling her she looks sexy (she does) and talking dirty to her (lightly). It has resulted in much better and regular sex.

Is this a shit test that should be ignored, or a trap ready to spring the next time I grab her ass? I think I'm just going to keep doing what I've been doing the past couple of months anyway, but I'm not 100% sure there isn't something I should change.