"It's never enough"

whinemoreplease · 2015-10-14T17:00:16+00:00

She meets your standards or she doesn't. If she doesn't, you'll find someone who will. That should be your mindset. You should always be improving yourself and your surroundings.

So basically, more dread. Pretty sure, she complains because she feels your complacency. Somehow she feels that not meeting your expectations should be acceptable behavior. Think about the implications of that for a second? It's not that she's trying to persuade you to consider her opinion, it's that your wants should be less important than hers. From what you've posted, she's making statements about you instead of making statements about her.

itsgavinc · 2015-10-14T16:41:51+00:00

"Of course it's never enough, I'm buying a donkey and bringing over a stripper midget with a blowtorch next week. Should be awesome."

BluepillProfessor · 2015-10-14T19:25:48+00:00

This is the kind of basic question we would like to see on AskMRP.

The answer to your question is Agree and Amplify or Amused Mastery.

Agree and Amplify:

"Damn right I can never get enough of you. Come on over here and we can talk about the first thing that pops up."

Amused Mastery

"Ohhhh sweety, don't be afraid that you can't handle me. I can do most of the work until you are wet enough."

However, STFU with an amused grin is still the best answer in most cases.

RPcoyote · 2015-10-15T10:04:57+00:00

Yeah my wife said that I treat her like a piece of meat. I later gave her a foot massage and said "that's how I season my meat, make sure it's going to be well done" or something like that. Meanwhile we're having sex 5x / week and she now often initiates.

Ignore what she says, give comfort every now and then, lead and watch what she does.

cholomite · 2015-10-14T23:53:17+00:00

It's not as much what you say but how you say it. As long as she can tell from your body language that you are on your shit and don't give a fuck about what she thinks, you're doing it right. Use the A&A examples here or make up your own. Just keep your shit eating grin together and get ready to pass the shit test she gives you an hour later. I would have just said "YOLO" and grabbed her ass.

2015-10-15T01:15:53+00:00

"You always want more sex.."

This is a dog whistle. Betas hear it and respond with their feminine conditioning:

"I'm sorry. I'm bothering you, we don't have to do it tonight"

Chad doesn't hear the whistle. He knows women say stupid shit all the time, in one ear out the other.

Rasalom72 · 2015-10-14T17:11:22+00:00

You can always use it as an excuse to lay down some dread. The reply to the "it's never enough for you" could be... "I can always find someone who can keep up..."

but doing that almost invites another shit test. But honestly, you should flip this around and ask her "So what should be enough?" just to hear what the hamster tells her. Funny things come from those questions...

VasiliyZaitzev · 2015-10-19T04:34:35+00:00

Tell her to be worried when you STOP wanting to have sex with her....

Hamster Nuke-age in 3....2....1....

Title	"It's never enough"
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	16
Comments	26
Date	October 14, 2015 4:30 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
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