I thought I would mix it up a little. Often times I’m posting about ways to keep your sex life & marriage interesting, how to create an environment that supports your wife’s inner slut, or trying to break the notion that sex is supposed to drop off in marriage.

Not today, today I want to let you take a peek inside Mr. and Mrs. TFA’s night last night.

Going overseas leads to an increase in pay (incentive to go on these business trips) so I decided to break the budget rule for the night and take the wife out on a date. Called the parents to babysit, made the reservations at the place, and then messaged the wife to let her know that she needed to be ready to go out and the kids needed to be ready to head to my parents.

She sends me a photo back - it’s a pic of the kids in a stroller and the dog. Fucking cool, she’s out for a run.

BACK STORY My wife is a little fucked up right now. We were playing in the snow and I tackled her, well instead of landing flat – she tucked her chin. If you played football you know this means your head snaps back into the ground on impact. Basically I gave my wife whiplash – fucking sucks and I feel terrible because she is in some pain from it.

I was surprised that she was running as I knew her neck hurt and I knew that today was the worst day of ‘Shark Week’. Side Note If you don’t track or keep a mental log, do so – I use the ‘Clue’ app.

I get to the house – kids are ready, fed, and good to go. Wife is ready and looking sexy as fuck – kill. Drop kids off, get to restaurant. I have her laughing, we are drinking, she’s rubbing my cock under the table – I’m thinking, ‘Fuck yeah, tonight is going to be wild’. Meal is over, pick up kids, my dad won a bottle of Jack Daniel’s and gives it to me then we head home.

Tuck the kids into bed, wife wants to watch SNL and have another drink – Good to Go let’s do this. Now, I start trying to escalate – but I’m being shot down. All the moves that usually melt her are just fucking not even registering. Now, I’m granite fucking hard, so I just stand up to ‘stretch’ and she sees my cock at full attention and laughs saying, Looks like someone is excited and she unzips the pants and blesses it with her DSLs a few times – then stops and hops on the couch with her stupid/cute giggle.

Gentlemen, I tried the rest of the night but she just wasn’t having it. She put a heating pad under her neck and passed the fuck out I was just lying next to her – dick facing the ceiling.

I was a little pissed, then more pissed, then I thought, this was an awesome night - we had fun, she is sore and not feeling super sexy (period), and just wanted a date with her man and to relax. Women are women, they cannot be expected to think and act like men.

To me we would fuck regardless of injuries – but that’s because I am a man. I didn’t fuck my wife even though I wanted to and that is a o fucking k. This game is not entirely about sex. Our marriages, our wives – we need to remember that this relationship we develop goes beyond the bedroom – she needs to be able to have those nights where you just don’t fuck and you need to be ok with that.

Like I said, not having sex is a rarity and it blew my mind that I didn’t have sex on a date night with a drunk wife. At the same time, she is doing everything I ask of her and continually striving to improve – I WE need to recognize that. It isn’t just about fucking your wife, it’s about enjoying your wife – all facets of her.