This is going to sound stupid, but I've always been super soft. I grew up with a younger sister, so I developed a pretty soft side early on, and I was never aggressive with people. Going to an all guys school tho, I was easy to pick on, then in university I found it hard to be assertive and talk to women.

Now, I'm 24 I got a degree a 10/10 girlfriend, a great job. But I still feel soft as fuck and super insecure all the time and I hate it. I'm worried my girl will just look at me one day and be disgusted or that my bosses will fire me because I just can't handle shit. And the more I think about it, the softer I become. I fucking hate it and nothing seems to be working, even when everything is objectively fine.

Any tips? Thanks.