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Another reason NOT to get married....

Wolffsrain

February 6, 2022
7 upvotes
/r/MensRights
https://www.marketwatch.com/amp/picks/my-husband-refuses-to-pay-my-student-loans-his-reason-i-took-out-the-loans-before-we-were-together-is-there-some-loophole-to-get-him-to-pay-01643839946
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Title Another reason NOT to get married....
Author

Wolffsrain

Upvotes 7
Comments 19
Date February 6, 2022 12:03 PM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/slv4z7/another_reason_not_to_get_married/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/another-reason-not-to-get-married.1099451
https://theredarchive.com/post/1099451
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Comments

[–]WingsofSky 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Why did they not tell her to get a job?!

Having a job means you can pay bills. It's not hard. Very simple really.

It can even be a part time job. To pay those bills.

[–]slipkid223 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Another example of how Women think about finances "Whatever I make is mine, whatever you make is OURS"

[–]Patches0h00lihan 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Imagine having a legit article circulating reddit about how your wife is trying to rob you.

[+]EnvironmentalWar4627 -6 points-5 points-4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

This article says the man isnt responsible for debts prior to the relationship. Wouldn't this be a reason it's safer to get married?

[–]TAPriceCTR 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The government says that is a lie.

[–]Wolffsrain[S] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Just the fact that she is trying to get him to pay even after he said he wouldn't shows that it's better to stay your own course.

[+]EnvironmentalWar4627 -6 points-5 points-4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Right. That's a GREAT reason not to marry this girl. Not sure it says much about anyone else though.

[–]spaceraverdk -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Dunno why you are being down voted for speaking the truth.

Awalt is incel theory.

[+]sleepyJoeBidet -14 points-13 points-12 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

He knew of the lones before marriage. Dude is am asshole, and this marriage is fundamentally broken.

[–]MelkorHimself 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

He knew of the lones before marriage. Dude is am asshole, and this marriage is fundamentally broken.

Your inability to proofread your comments aside, what would prior knowledge of his wife's loans have to do with anything? They're hers and hers alone.

[–]Halafax 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I read the article, it never says that her husband knew of the loans before the marriage.

[–]Frosty-Gate-8094 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Why one adult person should be responsible for the loan accrued by another adult person?

The only time he would be responsible is if he co-signed it or signed as a guarantor. OR If their finances were intermingled at the time when the loan was obtained.
Merely knowing about the loan doesn't make him responsible to pay them.

She doesn't mention any kids. So, if she took loans to study, then why doesnt she get a job and repay them.
Her husband pays for everything. Including rent, food, utility, health.

He is already doing more than his half of the share. Her loan is her responsibility.

[–]sleepyJoeBidet -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Better or worse till death do you part. While married the "yours" vs "mine" paradigm doesnt work too well.

[–]Frosty-Gate-8094 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Better or worse till death do you part.

That feature of marriage expired the day 'no-fault' divorce bill was passed....

If only death should separate them, can you explain no fault divorce to me?
How does it fit into your 'concept' of marriage?

[–]sleepyJoeBidet -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It isnt an option for me. Abuse, Abandonment and Adultery are the only valid reasons in my eyes. Now whether the government should be enforcing that ¯_(ツ)_/¯.

[–]Frosty-Gate-8094 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Your personal view of marriage does not apply universally or legally.

The only version of marriage that applies, is the legal version. (Which often supercedes prenups too, mind you).

If people wanted to defend 'till death do us apart' version of marriage. Then they should have defended it when laws were changed.
Its too late now..

You have no right to shame people who follow present marriage laws. Or choose to never marry at all.

[–]Practical-Rip6471 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Loan you twonk!

[+]sleepyJoeBidet -8 points-7 points-6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If he didn't it's even more broken.. and he is an idiot

[–]Practical-Rip6471 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No she's a liar and a user trying to take her husband for a sucker. Probably the only reason she married him.

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