As a guy......

KRosen333 · 2013-08-23T18:44:23+00:00

This subreddit makes me not want to trust or have sex with anyone ever again.

Don't be like that - most women aren't like those who are pointed out here. Likewise I don't think you are a rapist, like most of the guys pointed out in the femhubs.

rightsbot · 2013-08-23T18:24:19+00:00

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avantvernacular · 2013-08-23T20:37:40+00:00

That's a pretty extreme reaction.

JCurry2 · 2013-08-23T18:53:59+00:00

I think you are taking a rather extreme view of things. After subbing to r/mensrights my GF and I sat down and went over the issues linked on the sidebar and had a great conversation. We had a big discussion on consent and things like that. It opened her eyes to a lot of things and sparked some interesting conversations and might have shifted both of our views a little. I don't think this subreddit's purpose is to scare you away from ever having a healthy/happy relationship but to bring up issues in a viewpoint that is rarely shared in the media and to challenge some pre-conceived notions. The rule "never stick your dick in crazy" still applies but there are plently of well-adjusted, wonderful women out there (as well as men if that turns your crank) so don't get discouraged about all these stories.

ozymodeus · 2013-08-23T21:58:18+00:00

I get the same feeling. I think this sub is very important but I force myself to limit my time here for fear of turning into a radical. I only spend a week or two browsing it then stay away for a few months. I still get MRM related stuff from youtube recommendations. My main problem is that I often find myself perseverating about circumcision. I just can't forgive my parents for doing that to me.

GenderEqualityKing · 2013-08-23T19:35:56+00:00

I'm a MGTOW, and I don't blame you one bit. I think you shouldn't.

giegerwasright · 2013-08-23T20:00:13+00:00

It isn't the sub. It's the phenomena that the sub observes. You'd be wise never to trust a woman until you've throroughly vetted her.

MooseKnocker · 2013-08-23T20:13:09+00:00

No sex? Like not even with men? I'm telling you its a fun time!

guywithaccount · 2013-08-23T20:15:55+00:00

As I told someone else, it's a risk tolerance issue.

I don't have statistics on hand for how many women make false rape accusations, spermjack or decide to keep children after claiming not to want them, and so on.

But, uh, let's assume you're a teenager or college student, unmarried, so your main concern is false rape accusations. What are the odds that it'll happen to you... 1 in 20? 1 in 200? 1 in 2000?

Whatever it is, think of an unrelated activity with similar levels of risk. Would you feel comfortable doing that activity? If so, then you probably have nothing to worry about where sex is concerned; sure, you could suffer misfortune, but the odds are low. If not, then you should probably be careful about who, if anyone, you have sex with.

JCurry2 · 2013-08-23T20:20:37+00:00

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EdgarFrogandSam · 2013-08-23T21:03:00+00:00

As an idiot......

FTFY.

Title	As a guy......
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	17
Date	August 23, 2013 6:23 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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