I say this as a man who has had to deal with rude comments from women over my life, especially from within my own family which was mostly women. From what I understand, the reason why most men on red pill or black pill adjacent online groups still are angry and say that men are oppressed is because many either have experienced mistreatment from women or have seen it happen online 2nd hand.

All I have to say is that arguing back and becoming angry at the anger of women will only feed fuel to the fire. If you argue back, you give a further reason for genuinely deeply hateful women to continue to have hate. All you have to do is not say anything — a reevaluation on a society wide scale will only happen when men learn to become calm, collected, and silent in the face of hate.