Am I the only one who experiences this? Whenever, I've got any opportunity to discuss equality online. It always ends up in being banned/muted etc

I was recently called an incel and banned from one of my favorite streamers on twitch, all because I suggested that on stream chat (We were all watching a silly MTV dating show) that one of the contestants was a gold digger. I was labelled an incel and banned forever... I felt it was a bit over the top.

But this seems to happen alot. If I bring any rational to an argument I'm immediately banned/muted.

I usually just make a new account, but my resolve has been growing thin. I don't understand why a conversation isn't even allowed to be had half the time.

Please someone tell me, I"m not alone. I've been lately thinking that maybe I should seek therapy to be honest. Because, when this happens... I get a very tight angry feeling in my chest. I don't understand why no dialogue is allowed? I'm not allowed a voice...

And I don't mean just online. This happens in RL a bit too.

edit--- (I feel like i need someone to talk to about this sigh) +spelling