Do one-night stands even exist anymore??

RyansPutter · 2020-02-26T02:19:34+00:00

People still have them. Even without #MeToo, they still aren't a good idea. If you have sex with a girl you just met at a bar or on the first date, chances are she's done it a lot of times before (and probably so has the man involved). That's how you end up with a disease.

CargoShorts88 · 2020-02-26T04:44:55+00:00

I believe there is a big divergence in our society, with some people having a TON of sex, and most people withering away alone. It is only a matter of time, in my opinion, before something gives.

drmode2000 · 2020-02-26T01:03:42+00:00

Not with #MeToo. Don’t risk prison for False Accusations.

Sneakerkeeper123 · 2020-02-26T02:43:05+00:00

My friends have them, but are more FWB type things. I'm in my late 40s, I'm just not a one night stand kind of woman. Really never was, personal choice. It's also because of risk of disease and danger. And we know all men aren't dangerous. But as men, besides #metoo, do you feel unsafe as far as violence going to a women's place?

Oncefa2 · 2020-02-26T01:04:32+00:00

A friend of mine had one recently. I think he met her on tinder. He wanted a relationship though, and she didn't. So it was more of a friends with benefits kind of thing except they only had sex the one time.

llmethuselah · 2020-02-26T07:31:38+00:00

I've had a small number and I hope to have a few more. I'm not sure that sticking to longer term relationships protects you at all. My ex-wife accused me of fictitious rape and violence to get the police to participate in her abuse. And you don't have to have sex with someone for them to accuse you.

One night stand partners don't stand to gain as much financially and socially from you by accusing you as former partners. So they might even be safer for all we know.

puppehplicity · 2020-02-26T03:34:14+00:00

Sure, absolutely.

I don't know about straight people to be honest, but Grindr is alive and well for gay/bi men (and transgender women, in my experience).

sootlord · 2020-02-26T01:12:48+00:00

If you can exert a alpha frame getting sex on the first date isnt a issue. The problem is the girls that give it up are easy and plus you have to worry about #metoo

HierEncore · 2020-02-26T05:29:29+00:00

We live in a gynocentric world.

You can still have one night stands. All you need is a body-cam that you keep on yourself and running 24/7 with a connection to the cloud with a third party that cannot be tampered with. This is honestly the only way. Even if you tape a date, she can still accuse you of having done something to her on another day or at another time, even if you weren't physically next to each other. The woman can say she doesn't remember exactly when it happened, this way the man cannot prove it didn't happen.

Yes, I've actually read criminal reports. It is LITERALLY written like this:

"In or around Tuesday, the xx day of xx month of 20xx, the accused sexually assaulted the victim."

....how the fuck do you even begin to disprove something without an actual time or date? You can't. And this is how a lot of innocent guys get locked up.

trash62 · 2020-02-26T17:58:33+00:00

If you want a one night stand, get a wedding ring and some fake children.

Yes, there are women who have one night stands, but they go for married dudes who have a wife they can use for backup control. (If he's married, he has something to lose) make your fake wife beautiful, and some what out of reach (out of town, etc...)

You want to paint an image off her as a valuable asset you would hate to lose. This is because you are feeding the ego of the girl you are trying to sleep with. She must really be something if you are willing to risk losing your "wife" for one night with her.

As you play the game, try not to ask yourself "self, why am I even bothering to do this? What could I possibly gain?" Because, if you ask yourself that question, you will likely need some Viagra.

Title	Do one-night stands even exist anymore??
Author	garyguyfive
Upvotes	22
Comments	11
Date	February 26, 2020 12:37 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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