CORRECTION Reproductive coercion

So I as recently found a YouTuber/podcast hosted by a female that advocates for mens rights (I recommend yt/Justpearlythings) and they often quote statistics in their arguments so it led me to want to research some of what they say.

It led me to grape statistics and one of them that I saw was on grape coercion which in the way they described it wasn’t rape in the sense of forced sex but a male lying about using a condom/refusing to use one/tampering with male or female contraception. It led me to further think about the stories of baby trapping where a woman lied about using contraception or steals sperm such as taking the used condom.

Taking all of this in (plus more but don’t wish to monologue) I asked publicly why isn’t it considered rape when it’s the other way around?

Well one of my female friends who I always saw as someone who shared similar views as me seemingly disagreed because immediately after I was unfollowed and removed as a follower. And it’s just got me like what because she has stated she isn’t a feminist and understands men get the worst end of the stick in society but yet this question ”set her off”.

If I had to describe her character it’s very feminine and traditionalist but not modern. Think 50’s-70’s housewife but want to and enjoys working a job.