I need to hear from some men here.

Honest-Weather8663 · 2025-09-10T05:19:31+00:00

The fact that ur post about men doing wrong still exists on this sub is a testimony to how men are. If we men post such a thing on women's subreddit well be banned immediately.. I hv seen women do wrong things and their behavior being justified just because they're women.. Should I start hating all women?

DifficultPapaya3038 · 2025-09-10T05:20:57+00:00

Replace the word men with any minority group and consider how this sounds to you.

Equal-Physics-1596 · 2025-09-10T05:20:45+00:00

Best advice I can give you is to turn off your TV and get of social media, and if you watch any bad fate YT channels also unsub from them.

News always make everything look worse than it actually is and news never report anything good, especially about men.

LiosDelSol · 2025-09-10T05:26:02+00:00

I saw your post history. It is incredibly misandrist. If you need to see how often women do awful things to children, feel free to search the word teacher on this subreddit. Even filtering down to just the posts in the past year shows a horrendous amount of criminality of women against children.

I think if you see that both sexes are doing awful things, you will only end up hating humanity. What you need is hope that there are people who seek to do good things. I am a Christian, so I have faith in God to make all things right on the back end of this life, even when it seems like evil people get off scot-free. God has also given me hope when I've seen Him send people to me at the perfect moment that I needed them.

Of course, good men hate when evil men do evil things. There is a reason why criminals who do things to children are put in a separate part of the prison because even the other violent criminals will do violence against someone who does things to children.

astrodonnie · 2025-09-10T05:27:34+00:00

Feel free to think however you please about men. You are allowed to be incorrect.

deadlycrawler · 2025-09-10T05:23:38+00:00

There are good and bad people in this world Unfortunately it's hard to see the heroes sometimes

I helped my friend's brother when he needed a place to stay and kept him fed when he was hungry

Sometimes little things have big impacts

deadlycrawler · 2025-09-10T05:26:02+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Menaregood/s/zTcV7dDnYn

Aesop557 · 2025-09-10T05:30:47+00:00

You hate evil. And evil acts as well as people who cause suffering for the sake of suffering. You don't hate men.

jessi387 · 2025-09-10T05:34:49+00:00

Well, you might want to consider this events are actually statistically rare, although traumatic to hear about.

Secondly, most Everyman who committed a violent crime, robbery, or abused someone, even rapist, were men who were raised by a single mother. It’s shocking how it is the root cause of so many of these problems.

Third, one of the biggest reasons there is not as much reciprocal violence ( there is obviously but it is not near parody) because women are not as physically capable. Domestic violence is interesting to look at because women actually assault men more LOL… but men are the ones who seriously injure their partner more often.

Btw… most geniuses are males, this isn’t really up for debate. The vast majority of people who have contributed to our species are men. You’d never look at most men an venerate them for the accomplishments of a small minority.

And lastly. “Not everyone woman would, but any woman could” is a phrase that was used to describe women who make false accusations of rape… this logic can be applied to your fears of violence. Not everyone would, but anyone could. You don’t know who, and so you view people with suspicion. This is how people view women also. And it’s worth considering to whatever degree you may develop biases against them, they have legitimate reasons to develop biases against you.

Punder_man · 2025-09-10T07:16:31+00:00

Op, you hear more about men committing "Evil" because men are more likely to be arrested, charged and sentenced for their crimes than women are..

If you see what ultimately is a small subset of men committing horrible crimes and think "All" men are like that.. then that says more about you than those horrible men..

The fact that you even consider hating all men for crimes they have not and most WOULD NOT commit says a lot about your entrenched misandry..

Ultimately its up to you to make a change and be better than that..

Extreme-Bed3755 · 2025-09-10T05:37:36+00:00

Women cause irreparable psychological harm to their children when they decide to get divorced from their husbands because they’re bored or they found another guy. This isn’t rape or murder like you mentioned but it still causes serious damage to their children and the husband ( children’s father) and it’s all because women only care about themselves and making themselves happy. And women take no accountability for their actions. The percentage of men who rape and kill children are extremely low but the amount of women who ruin their families lives for selfish reasons are fairly high in modern times.

mrkpxx · 2025-09-10T05:29:11+00:00

Men who are so sick aren't born that way, but are raised that way by their maternal figure, almost always their own abusive and objectifying mother. It's a malformation that develops in the first three years. Men become what women make of them. Does that mean I hate all women? No.

sidestephen · 2025-09-10T05:40:35+00:00

Women are not particularly better. They are simply conditioned to be afraid of repercussions of their actions, so they keep it quiet. But they often engage in violence if they lose control (for example, alcohol), know that the other party won't harm them in any way (like kids), OR if they can use someone else as a proxy (be it "my boyfriend will beat you up!", law enforcement, or the court of public opinion).

Men just do more things in general, both constructive and destructive. Women in general use men to do both of these things for them. Sorry.

Amraam120C · 2025-09-10T05:48:21+00:00

There's reporting bias. For example, from what I've seen, the black man stabbing a white woman story, none of the big news networks have ever mentioned it. Because that would be "racist". But if it were a white man, esp if committing a sex crime, that would be all over the news, even though by the same standards, this reporting will be "sexist". 2. Women get away with it more often. There's nothing to report because the crime was never recognized. 3. Imagine a man asked something like you did in a women's rights sub. He would be immediately banned, and be bombarded with hate comments. I'm grateful you're here, here I am writing you a whole poem. My point is, women tend to get more inflamed quite readily, especially if it is their own kind being "attacked", and in my experience you cannot have a argument with a woman. They can never accept when they are weong. So when the news do spread, they pile on hate comments.

WackyConundrum · 2025-09-10T05:56:11+00:00

Was there supposed to be a question there?

the_1st_inductionist · 2025-09-10T06:58:30+00:00

Men and women have free will. It’s not helpful for you to judge someone by the choices of another. You’ll miss out on the benefit of mutually beneficial relationships, like a friendship, with better men and they’ll miss out as well. It helps other sexists and rapists (since rapists can use proclamations that all men are rapists to delude themselves that they’re just like all other men).

Men almost certainly commit sexual assault more brutally and they do it more frequently because men are more capable of doing so. Men are bigger, stronger and heavier. Men can orgasm much more easily in sex. Men can’t menstruate or get pregnant. Men face less risk of rape or sexual assault or assault. This all means that men generally enjoy being more dominant in bed and women generally enjoy being more submissive, which would feed into being inclined to rape for twisted men.

I think there’s research coming out that show women commit sexual aggression against men at comparable rates, though less brutally in general. I’ve had a drunk older woman I hardly even spoke to touch my butt against my consent once. I’d expect it to have happened much more often if I spent more time around them.

Falconoflight777 · 2025-09-10T07:49:02+00:00

Because when men raping its calling rape and depicting in media as it need to be depicted, yet when women rape even a child even if she get arrested (what usually not happening) its topic with jokes, where female rapist smiling and depicted as angel and topic name is young hot girl (yea 39 years old GIRL) Have Sex with 15 years teen... Or when men beat up women its serious topic with experts and how its serious problem in our society, and when men get beaten up by women its comedy gold with benny hill soundtrack. FFS when women freaking cut guys genitals - women in show giggle and laugh about it and later this women become late show star... So YEA ofc you feel like this, because men get demonized and women are wonderful in any circumstances...

Which_Ad_3917 · 2025-09-10T08:15:30+00:00

If a man looks at himself in the mirror 50 times a day, never apologizes, never acknowledges his faults and belittles others, he’s a narcissist. When a woman does it, she’s a woman. With that mindset, people go on to run studies and conclude that men are more likely to be narcissists. Isn’t that fabulous?

Futureman999 · 2025-09-10T08:22:34+00:00

men seem to do it more and usually are more brutal

Confirmation bias

You favor things that confirm your existing beliefs.

We are primed to see and agree with ideas that fit our preconceptions, and to ignore and dismiss information that conflicts with them. You could say that this is the mother of all biases, as it affects so much of our thinking through motivated reasoning. To help counteract its influence we ought to presume ourselves wrong until proven right.

I honestly don't know how we're ever going to recover from decades of feminist social programming conditioning women to fear and hate men, but imagine if somebody did that trying to get people to hate and fear b____k people? Obvious deplorable racism right? Ask yourself why you didn't pick up on that when it was done with gender not race

rusty083 · 2025-09-10T08:56:31+00:00

Maybe read some news or something about some man running into some dangerous situation to save some woman, child or a bunch of children. Then extrapolate that for all men. Because women are very very very rarely heroes. They will rarely risk life and limb to save another person. Even if their house is burning down and their children are inside they will usually just sit on the sidewalk crying waiting for some male to go and save them. Men are heroes and you should be thanking us. Hope this helps.

SidewaysGiraffe · 2025-09-10T14:11:15+00:00

Do... do you expect you'll hear comments from us in favor of raping and murdering children?

The question you should be asking yourself isn't "are the majority of child rapists and murderers men?" but "are the majority of men child rapists/murderers?".

63daddy · 2025-09-10T15:58:13+00:00

I think all rape, assault and murder is wrong regardless of the sexes involved. These things are of course illegal, typically felony crimes.

It is of course only a small minority of men who commit rapes and murders so why do you blame all men?

It should also be noted that the few men that commit murders, murder other men much more than they murder women. Why are you only sympathetic to the minority of females who are killed and not the many more male victims?

Francis_Dollar_Hide · 2025-09-10T05:34:30+00:00

It's not our job to make you 'unsexist'.

Witoldski · 2025-09-10T08:31:13+00:00

You all are too naive. She didn't come here to discuss. She came here to feel validated that her gender is still the 'oppressed' one and men are still the 'oppressors' (no matter how many issues men are struggling with today or how many advantages women have today). She wants to believe that narrative without questioning it. 'Asking good men' is just a guise of getting that narrative validated. She will be having these misandrist thoughts again and will again think all men are like this. Do not think she doesn't know all men are not like this. You cannot convince someone of the truth when that person wants to believe the lie.

To OP, I am only responsible for my actions as a man. I am not responsible for how you feel about me.

errant_elephant · 2025-09-10T06:17:11+00:00

if u listen to mainstream (feminist) media it can lead u to believe way more men are doing horrible things to the women they r with or their children than women are. but i remember seeing some australian statistics a while back where i think men were about 2.5x more likely to kill their partners than women and women were slightly more likely to kill their children than men. so maybe its not as lopsided as you think. i would bet women r much more likely to die in a car crash than be killed by their partner. so its probably not as common as u've been led to believe.

as for how men feel about men who hurt women, it seems like they look down on it more than women look down on women who hurt men. men don't want to associate with men who've attacked/raped women. rapists get beat up and much worse in mens prisons. meanwhile feminists often celebrate female violence against men, check out that sharon stone video about the woman who cut off the guy she was with's penis while he was asleep.

Title	I need to hear from some men here.
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Date	September 10, 2025 5:10 AM UTC (11 months ago)
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