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[–]tired_hillbilly 11 points12 points13 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[+]Baron-Beeyileeh-II1 points [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Going to Incels.me paints a very different picture, though I can't find it anymore. But, perhaps I'll check that sub out someday.
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[+]Baron-Beeyileeh-II1 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
The term was literally made by people who identified with it.
Incel: "Involuntary Celibate" was popularized in a subreddit that shined itself as a therapy group. Again, I MYSELF AM A VIRGIN, I am not bashing virgins as a whole.
[+]GnomeChompy1 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Just some food for thought. Judging by your profile I can assume you are a queer youth. Have you ever been called a faggot? Idk and you don't have to respond but I have, as a gay man. And it sucked. But when I was growing up, men who were attracted to other men were seen as degenerate, entitled, and a menace to society. And it was all for something we couldnt help. Other men would, in truth or lie, go out of their way to not seem like a "faggot." And it really screwed up the mental and emotional health of men who legitimately were attracted to other men. And what was even worse, was that society would use the handful of legitimately predatory queer men as "proof" that we were all monsters (lies of course), continuing the cycle.
And thats why I no longer use "incel" in a derogatory way.
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[+]Baron-Beeyileeh-II1 points [recovered] (15 children) | Copy Link
Are you attacking my queerness, or are you saying I'm lying about my gender?
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[+]Baron-Beeyileeh-II1 points [recovered] (13 children) | Copy Link
If you look through my post and comment history, I genuinely agreed with multiple posts and commsnts made on this sub. And I even wanted to talk about men's mental health, as I have personally suffered from the stigmas against not being "masculine" enough, with my queerness being a common point of attack. Not everybody who disagrees with you is dishonest.
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[+]Baron-Beeyileeh-II1 points [recovered] (11 children) | Copy Link
From my own research, people who call themselves incels more often than not subscribe to the Black Pill, look it up if you haven't. I do not attack people based on the number of sexual partners they have had. Incel means more than just virgin, otherwise I would just say virgin.
Also news flash, I have never had sex! I know it can feel lonely. However, as I have previously clarified the "Black Pill" is an integral part of the ideology people who use the title "incel" for themselves usually subscribe to.
[–]RubMobile2126 0 points1 point2 points (10 children) | Copy Link
[+]Baron-Beeyileeh-II1 points [recovered] (9 children) | Copy Link
I was commenting on people that OTHERS IN THIS SUB were calling out for being incels. Do you not read? Also, what makes you think I was labelling everybody here an incel? This is literally about the opposite.
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[+]Baron-Beeyileeh-II1 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Now, everybody is calling me a fake and a troll, so yeah, I truly am not welcome here. Not just a feeling.
Also, my own family has shunned emotion, so I know what it feels like.
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[+]Baron-Beeyileeh-II1 points [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link
I would also like to add that feminist groups, LGBTQ+ groups, ect., were never as hostile toward me as this sub is, despite being a man who expresses his emotions.
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[+]Baron-Beeyileeh-II1 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Incels.me was the main go-to website among incels to talk about their inceldom. It was chock-full of outright hatred of women, and deification of mass murderers. People who are down bad is one thing, and mental help for such people could be a possibility, but those who subscribe to the "Black Pill" are the people who I refer to as incels in this post. The people who would go to such groups as Imcels.me.
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