Men's Perspective Requested; Posting from ask.reddit: "Really creeped out by my boyfriends secret twitter account."

GorillaJ · 2010-05-26T23:31:11+00:00

Snooping is bad, but it being bad has no bearing on what you find via snooping. The guy's a douchebag, though probably plenty nomal offline and just a huge, crazy troll on it.

soloreddit · 2010-05-26T23:36:34+00:00

Sexual fetishes are a weird thing. My guess is that he probably gets off on saying dirty things to the porn stars, talking to them in really misogynistic ways, etc. I'm also guessing he doesn't exhibit any of this behavior in his day-to-day life.

Not that that excuses it, those are real people he's talking to, and they probably find it repulsive. Hell, maybe he even finds it repulsive, I don't know. Maybe that's his outlet because he doesn't know how to find an outlet for it in his relationship, i.e. he wants to have aggressive/rough sex but doesn't feel that he can ask his partner for that.

Part of it may be brought on by how aggressive mainstream porn is becoming. 5-10 years ago you wouldn't see mainstream porn that involved vomiting, slapping, verbal degradation, etc., and now it's everywhere.

My guess is that if she brought up the account, he'd probably just be extremely embarrassed and ashamed, not violent.

Leprecon · 2010-05-26T23:57:53+00:00

Meh, he says dirty things to pornstars. The guy is a bit weird, and the girl is a bit disrespectful. Don't really care either way. I just don't like that the girl assumes he is a misogynist who is going to hurt her but I can't really blame her for that since what he is doing is pretty weird. The fact that he has never acted that way towards her counts for nothing to her, and that is again, weird.

So to summarize; I don't care and they are both ... weird.

chonnes · 2010-05-26T22:48:02+00:00

Apparently I am the odd-man-out in my assessment of the OP's ask.reddit submission.

Here's a simplified summary: I have a house; inside my house is my computer; inside my computer are all of my files; my files pertain to things in my life; in order to pay for my house and my computer and manage my life, I also have a job; you do not have a computer, a job or your own place to live; I allow you to use my computer, that contains my files that is in my house while I go to work; I leave my social networking account "logged-in" on my computer; you read my files that include my behaviors you're not familiar with and that I do not demonstrate to you, you apply your interpretation, take issue with Twitter "friends" that I've never even met, and take it to the web for discussion; now I am the bad guy being witch-hunted while you have done nothing wrong.

Title	Men's Perspective Requested; Posting from ask.reddit: "Really creeped out by my boyfriends secret twitter account."
Author	chonnes
Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	May 26, 2010 10:21 PM UTC (16 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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