It is depressing to hear that boys are not doing well in school, higher education, jobs, mental health, and growth. Instead of helping emancipate women the system has turned into a zero sum outcome. The only way for women to succeed is to demonize men and weaponize masculinity. My question to the Reddit hive what are practical approaches to ensure that men continue to focus on their growth, do not become bitter and lead by example. Calling out examples of misandry makes men aware but it increases bitterness or hostility so what might be more proactive or effective ways to improve things : Is it donating to causes, is it self reflection, working out, meditating, helping a brother, donating to men's shelters?