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This list gives me existential dread. The fact that I could be mocked or downplayed as a victim while the perpetrator faces no consequences terrifies me.

blaizken_420

August 23, 2022
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Title This list gives me existential dread. The fact that I could be mocked or downplayed as a victim while the perpetrator faces no consequences terrifies me.
Author

blaizken_420

Upvotes 113
Comments 30
Date August 23, 2022 8:03 PM UTC
(3 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/wvyjro/this_list_gives_me_existential_dread_the_fact/
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Comments

[–]pearl_harbour1941 74 points75 points76 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Being mocked and downplayed when you're a victim is exactly what happens to men and boys.

When I was divorcing my wife (my decision) and she went off the rails making every conceivable allegation against me, my entire family who knew that I was not aggressive, or a sexual deviant, or all the other things said:

"Well you must have done something to deserve it"

My wife was diagnosed with a mental illness. But no, it was my fault that she falsely accusing me.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit 24 points25 points26 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's truly strange how that kind of attitude still lives today when most adults have lived with a woman for some time at some point in their lives, and are well aware of exactly what women get up to.

It just goes to show how beautifully the gas lighting has been implemented.

[–]Potter_codes 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Your family sucks.

I was in a similar position. My family thinks she's a fuckin waco. Sorry you have to deal with that.

[–]Eval-conundrum 17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Chad did her wrong, so now you get to pay. You are the straw who broke the camel's back by existing.

[–]DavidByron2 32 points33 points34 points 3 years ago (23 children) | Copy Link

Being a man is to have to constantly be responsible for women's crimes.

It used to be literally written into law that way. Perhaps in some countries it still is. But whether it's the law or not it always has and remains the social custom.


And ironically the fact that men had to literally pay for women's crimes is all men's fault too - according to feminists it's proof of how privileged men are, so they deserve it. So the fact that men pay for women's crimes becomes an example of itself.

[+]pumpkinpeopleunite -42 points-41 points-40 points 3 years ago (22 children) | Copy Link

Being a man is to have to constantly be responsible for women's crimes

Oh really? So which women's crimes have you been responsible for constantly throughout your life as a man?

[–]DavidByron2 18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Is this the girl who was posting under blue banana hats.. I don't remember some odd name like that... used to post and get banned from here all the time.

[+]pumpkinpeopleunite -10 points-9 points-8 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Is this the girl who was posting under blue banana hats

No fucking idea what that means.

You gonna answer the question?

[–]DavidByron2 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

LOL, am I going to give personal details about my life to a troll?

[+]pumpkinpeopleunite -7 points-6 points-5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So you made a statement (an objectively untrue one), which you can't back up. Pretty typical for you tbh.

[–]Greg_W_Allan 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

You are a very nasty piece of work. How about you go elsewhere.

[–]pumpkinpeopleunite -3 points-2 points-1 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Wow, solid argument bro

[–]Greg_W_Allan 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You're still a very nasty piece of work. Take it elsewhere.

[–]pumpkinpeopleunite -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I don't have to do what you tell me, I'm going to stay right here:)

[–]Greg_W_Allan 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You can't take a hint?

[–]Marc123123 37 points38 points39 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Oh, go and fuck yourself:

She cheats - its your fault, you didn't give her enough attention.

You cheat after not having any sex for a year - its your fault, you are a bastard for cheating.

She wants to split up - its your fault, you have done 100 things you shouldn't have done, all in her head.

You want to split up - its your fault, nevermind her being a bitch, you should have coped with it.

[+]pumpkinpeopleunite -31 points-30 points-29 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Oh, go and fuck yourself

No thanks

She cheats

Not a crime.

She wants to split up

Not a crime.

Did you understand the comment you replied to?

[–]Marc123123 27 points28 points29 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Do you understand the context?

[+]pumpkinpeopleunite -26 points-25 points-24 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Yup. You don't obviously.

[–]Marc123123 22 points23 points24 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Yeah? And what is your doctor saying about it?

[–]pumpkinpeopleunite -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

About what?

[–]Marc123123 14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

About you thinking that you understand the context while you are clearly clueless.

[–]pumpkinpeopleunite -5 points-4 points-3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You're the clueless one. You're the one who jumped in to defend the troll who said "life as a man is being constantly responsible for women's crimes ", but you're unable to name even one crime that a woman committed that you as a man have been held responsible for. Maybe you need to see a doctor. Grow up.

[–]shashunolte 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"she cheats"

"""not a crime"""

how about the states where adulatory is a crime.
Alabama, Arizona, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Illinois, Kansas, Massachusetts, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, New York, North Dakota, Oklahoma, South Carolina, Utah, Virginia and Wisconsin.
or the fornication laws. in these states
Idaho, Illinois, Massachusetts, Mississippi, South Carolina and Utah.

i'd be happy to go into other countries, but most of those are religious-based laws they have.

[–]HesperianDragon 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Look through history, sometimes cheating was a crime. Sometimes divorce was a crime.

Maybe in your time and place, these things are not crimes but that is a very egocentric way of looking at things. The culture you grew up in is not a universal human experience.

Plus you got to distinguish between legal crimes which change as cultures change and moral crimes which some would argue don't change and others would argue they do.

Do you consider cheating a moral crime? How about the lying and betrayal of trust that usually goes with the cheating?

[–]XavierMalory 12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Interesting (although blatantly obvious) strawman.

As a man I have never raped a woman, and yet somehow despite my never committing said crime, I’m at the mercy of biased laws regarding rape in that men can rape women but not vice versa.

How am I at the mercy of this, you ask? When I was in my early 20s a woman attempted to rape me. Do you honestly think that had she succeeded and I had filed a report that anyone would’ve believed me?

Also, here’s an example of law from 1975 RE men being held liable for a woman’s wrongdoings.

https://www.ojp.gov/pdffiles1/Digitization/57842NCJRS.pdf

Page 6

[–]RatDontPanic 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

When a woman rapes an underaged boy, the boy is punished with an 18 year sentence of child support if she has a baby. And feminists like you say that he deserves it.

[–]pumpkinpeopleunite -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I never said anyone deserves something bad to happen to them. How rude of you.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Oh fumpkingagperson, you're getting blocked. All you ever do is come in vag blazing, to prop up very arguable femist diatribe.

[–]EricAllonde 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just add her to the list of counter examples to point to when feminists lie by saying, “We don’t hate men”.

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