Why Is There A Double Standard When Female Teachers Have Sex With Students?

jeff_the_nurse · 2018-07-07T21:42:39+00:00

Good that this is getting attention, but they still didn’t say “rape” in the title.

Neko404 · 2018-07-07T22:54:59+00:00

Because women’s sexuality is a gift. Men’s sexuality is predatory.

slacktivist0 · 2018-07-07T20:33:37+00:00

Because it reflects the reality of differences between men and women. It's why equality under law doesn't mean a hill of beans if it is embedded in a gynocentric culture eager to cater to every woman.

Alddebaran · 2018-07-08T00:56:25+00:00

It's straight men's fault too, sorry to say. I've read articles of women sexually abusing young boys, and most of the comments were the same "lucky him", "i wish this happened to me" etc.

I know i'm preaching to the wrong choir here, but try to stop thinking with your dicks.

Or if you do at least do the same when the situation is reversed, and show the world how lucky young girls are to be f-ed by older men.

ThePigmanAgain · 2018-07-08T01:30:05+00:00

"Then the reverse of this also happens, where people judge female paedophiles more harshly than their male counterparts because they're enraged that a woman, who should protect a child, has taken advantage of one."

LOL! I can safely say that i have never seen that happen.

JTKirkSr · 2018-07-07T20:31:57+00:00

Because...vagina.

Fake_Credentials · 2018-07-08T03:33:43+00:00

Til female sexual predators all have awful eyebrows

Philip8000 · 2018-07-08T07:24:06+00:00

Because there's a strong belief that men always want sex anytime, anywhere, and they don't care who with, so they think it's not a big deal. When it's a male teacher/female student, we're ready to cut his balls off.

juanml82 · 2018-07-08T04:23:58+00:00

Because most societies easily understand that men, including teenagers, have sexual drives and may very well desire their hot female professors but, at the same time, have a hard time coping with the idea that women, including teenagers, have sexual drives and may very well desire their hot male professor.

Calling teenagers "children" or "kids" and mixing ephebophilia with paedophilia doesn't do any favors either. A fifteen years old teenager, of either sex, isn't the same as a seven years old child, of either sex.

With that said, the power differential usually invalidates consent (depending, I guess, on the options the student has to have the teacher sacked or to be evaluated by a different teacher) and the age difference is a red flag for a toxic relationship of some kind, even if the student is in the later stages of adolescence and everyone can agree that he/she is mentally and physically ready to have sex and enjoy it.

PeonSupreme · 2018-07-07T23:02:28+00:00

Because eggs are precious and sperm cells are a dime a million. No matter how low her character, the woman is still the guardian of the sacred, noble and serene egg. All the man has to offer is that disgusting little spermoceti flailing around mindlessly.

It sounds primitive, but at our core, that’s how we think.

Razorbladekandyfan · 2018-07-07T21:39:17+00:00

No.

/s Yeah, of course there is.

aircoft · 2018-07-08T05:46:13+00:00

Because society is sexist.

Azure_Triedge · 2018-07-08T07:45:48+00:00

What? An article that actually calls out the bullshit? It’s a miracle!

TheMythof_Feminism · 2018-07-07T21:39:22+00:00

Depends on the age of the students.

I am a part time professor. My students are 18 and above so there are no non-adult teens and definitely no children. That being said, there is something called "ethical protocol", if a woman comes on to a professor, the proper action is to immediately leave the room and report it to administration, immediately as in , you leave before she even finishes talking.

Failure to comply with this constitutes grounds for punishment, even if the professor did not nail the student in question.

However, for female professors, the protocol is to turn them down and refocus on the material which is basically the standard protocol for the most mundane of situations.

If the question is; "Well, why is the protocol different?"

The answer is simple; Because men and women are different.

Remember that women are life's easy mode. In terms of sex, they can get sex more easily than the most badass vag-slayer you have ever known. They only have to say "yes" to one of the many offers they get on a daily basis.

When I first got a taste of power, it was incredibly confusing. I was never good with women, I wasn't terrible but generally speaking I didn't have the patience for them, so correspondingly I didn't pursue them as often or as aggressively as others.

However, when you get power, of any type, women start to throw themselves at you in ways you probably never dreamed of, and in numbers/frequency that you might not think possible.

This is a HUGE shock for any man the first time. Unless he was a hardcore vag-slayer, it is something that he will have to contend with for awhile before coming to terms with it. This is why the protocol is much more strict for men.

If you want to test a man's character, give him power .

The only way you could argue with anything I've said here is if you believe in tabula rasa (blank slate) and therefore believe men and women are "the same", heh.

omegaphallic · 2018-07-07T23:16:25+00:00

It's partly because people are overly protective of women and partly because many men we're so sexually frustrated in high school that they wished they'd gotten to fuck the not teacher that it never occurs to them that could have lead to them becoming messed up.

Still for 14 years old and up I support firing the teacher, but not prision time, under that age the teacher should get prison or mental institution depending on details.

Gender should not matter.

Title	Why Is There A Double Standard When Female Teachers Have Sex With Students?
Author	TheAndredal
Upvotes	245
Comments	87
Date	July 7, 2018 7:40 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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