I had some person here saying that men are lacking in ambition yet are behaving hypergamously(looking for the best of the best in sexual, romantic and economic marketplaces, regardless of price/risk)... care to give a example?

How a individual can act in hypergamously driven ways, and yet have little to no ambition? Don't those mean almost opposite behaviors?

And even if there is a way it is possible. How can one believe those are the most common denominators in men?