From u/northernlights190 comment

No. I’ve never thought about a man sexually or been aroused by him within the first few minutes of meeting him, ever. I definitely have met a lot of men I thought were very attractive, but it takes more for sexual feelings to develop.

I’ve twice had an incredibly strong initial electric spark feeling when seeing a guy for the first time, which is definitely a physical component, but it’s still not quite the same as sexual attraction — at that stage I still don’t feel aroused by him or think about him sexually. It’s more like a godawful strong curiosity or a pull to get to know this person.

Can you explain what the bold part means? I can't of getting it but want to standard standard it from you perspective.