How to navigate dating multiple partners?

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-12-19T03:36:29+00:00

No advice threads

Educational-Cut4177 · 2021-12-19T03:21:04+00:00

You want to be a dick but protect your reputation? Lol wtf Just be fucking honest about your intention “Hey, girl I’m interested in, i don’t want a serious relationship, are u down?”

Congrats, you didn’t ruin your reputation

mistresswhat · 2021-12-19T03:21:05+00:00

Especially if you're dating people in your social circles but even if not, be upfront from the beginning. If you're not looking for anything serious right then, say so. You're fresh out of a 7 year relationship, which is a great excuse. You might lose out on a few people but if you're sooooo successful then it won't matter much.

And like... don't be a dick. If you're going around saying things like "you don't make the cut for monogamy" then you're getting canceled for that, not the other people you're dating.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-12-19T03:23:08+00:00

Maybe try being honest with them.

januaryphilosopher · 2021-12-19T03:30:17+00:00

If you want to be polygamous, you're going to get a reputation for being polygamous. And if you're not upfront about being polygamous when people expect you to be monogamous, you're going to get the reputation of being a dick. If you want to avoid that, you can make it known from the start.

CimZim · 2021-12-19T03:12:57+00:00

Why not use poly dating apps or groups?

death_by_1000_cats · 2021-12-19T03:23:21+00:00

That's why it's called spinning plates. You're going to drop some. No woman's going to want to be in a harem indefinitely. Enjoy them while they last.

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-12-19T03:26:57+00:00

So, you want to be a player without any backlash? Lol

Consider the chatter to be social proof. Ignore them and keep being a player

Cupcakelover1985 · 2021-12-19T03:27:07+00:00

The only way to navigate this is to date women who don’t want monogamy or at least not from you. So women who are in their hoe phase and rotating men themselves or women who are polyamorous and always maintain multiple relationships, or women who want monogamy but not from a guy like you(you’ll have to be discreet with these types). If you build your pseudo harem out of women like this then you can have your cake and eat it too. Otherwise you’re just going to have to deal with being dropped and labeled a dick once the monogamous minded girls you seduce find out you’re not on the same page. Tbh though, if you’re a fuckboy why do you care if that’s how women see you? Just own it. Women who don’t mind that and won’t drop you over it will come to you if you’re good enough in bed.

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Steak_personafied · 2021-12-19T03:19:43+00:00

Deflect the question as long as possible

2021-12-19T03:22:33+00:00

I mean the way you said you’re not answering the question until they ask is kinda making me think you might be “future faking” them whether intentional or not.

I’m fine with a hookup but don’t treat my like your boo if you don’t want that energy back. Keep it casual and make it clear we’re just hooking up. But also be prepared that a lot of women won’t want that.

If you’re trying to hide that fact you’re seeing other woman, they probably will think you’re a dick

Title	How to navigate dating multiple partners?
Author	K20ASPE
Upvotes	1
Comments	26
Date	December 19, 2021 3:10 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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