I notice that any conservative notion on how a woman should behave gets immediately met with tremendous criticism and relentless downvotes. But it's not like people actually thought this out for themselves. They all just repeat the same ideas: A woman should do whatever she wants. She should dress whatever she wants. If a guy doesn't want her to do X, then the relationship isn't worth it. If a guy doesn't want her to go to a certain place or be with certain people, he is insecure. Etc, etc, etc. You just hear the same ideas over and over again.

I think you hear the same ideas over and over again because certain people benefit from it. Mainly women. If you're a women, you want as much freedom as possible, right? And if you're a man, in a society that prompts you to be weak and sensitive, you wanna agree with women. That's how you think you will get laid. Even if you don't want her to have all that freedom, you still feel that an entire culture would be against you for even suggest she should be imposed certain restriction in order to be in a relationship with you.

I believe, however, that there is tremendous value in a more conservative relationship. I don't allow my gf to do whatever she wants. She can't go to a club without me, for example. 99.9% here would say this is unacceptable and she should just dump me. Well, i think it's crucial. I don't want her to post on IG because that's a breathing ground to guys like me, that will try to slide into her DM's. I mean, she can do all of that, but not in a relationship with me.

Thankfully, i never really had any issue attracting women. But i'm aware this is not what most people can say. Particularly most Redditors. I've been with a lot of women, relatively speaking. Dozens, and dozens. Some will say it's disgusting, some will say it's cool. Regardless of how you feel about it, one thing is for sure: It teaches you a lot about people. But if you can't say the same, you probably don't know people nearly as well as i do. I've probably seen a lot of shit that you don't even imagine a girl would be capable of doing. Or at least that most would.

What i've learned about women is how easy they can be, regardless of their status, to someone that is attractive enough. Same for men. What i've learned about people in general is how weak they are. How easily corrupted they can be. And i'm talking about a wide variety of people. Even women who are very respected and hold the trust of many people. A girl have talked to her fiancée on the phone while blowing me. You may think this is an horrible woman, but everybody loves and trusts her. People who have known her since she was a kid would put their hands in the fire for her, and yet...they're wrong? That tells you a lot about how much your trust in someone is worth.

"Oh, but, but, you haven't met the right woman. I'm not like that"

That's what they all say. But that's not the truth. It might even be the truth until the right(or wrong) guy appears. But you're not as strong as you may think you are. And your relationship is also not as secure as you'd like to believe. There's usually a disconnection between a person's reality and their self perceived reality. A lot of that would say things like "i'm not like this...this is wrong". They're in denial. And most of them probably never did nothing like this before.

Now, i've been with many women that had boyfriends, or were married. I know, i know: I'm a bad person. Or, as redditors would say "You're a piece of shit". It doesn't really matter to me what you think. I believe your relationship is your responsability, not mine. If you want her to be faithful, then pursue that goal. Don't expect me to help you with that. It's not that i wanna destroy relationships. I don't choose women because they're with someone else. But the reality is that most women have someone, so chances are, whoever catches my interest, is probably in a relationship.

But i'm not the only reason why these women are unfaithful. And i don't think they're bad human beings, per se. I think they're weak. Most people can fall under the right circumstances. And the right circumstances aren't simply Mr. Steal Your Girl coming along. They're also the culture.

"Culture" is actually the main circumstance. Current culture tells you it's absolutely OK for your women to be reachable through the internet by any men on earth, and you have no right to control her. She can be right next to you speaking to her lover. And that's what they did when they talked to me. They were right next to their boyfriend/husbands. They "trusted her". Because "there needs to be trust".

Current culture tells you that you have to blindly trust someone. You have no right to actually make sure shit doesn't happen. You have to blindly trust. Just trust her. Because, if you like her, that automatically means she is trustworthy. She doesn't have to prove anything.

Current culture is the main reason why i have been able to steal women from men just using a smartphone. In a different culture this wouldn't have been possible. Or at least nearly as easy. But ya'll chose to be blind.

There's a certain benefit in being a bit restrictive. Sometimes that can destroy a relationship, for sure. But that's still better than being a cuck. Not every woman wants to follow rules, and to them i just say "ok, bye". At the end of the day, we're still all free to do what we want.

If you're one of those guys that is super liberal and modern and completely trusts and "respects" his girl, chances are you're going to continue to be convinced that you are absolutely right, since she might never tell you what she has been doing behind your back. At least i know that the guys never really found out what they did with me. Keep living the sweet illusion.

Whether or not someone's gonna be unfaithful is, most of the time, just a matter of opportunity. The more opportunities you have, the higher the chances. If a girl can basically go anywhere by herself, dresses however she wants, uses her social networks without any sort of supervision, the the opportunities will be endless, right? It's a simple game of numbers.