Q4BP: Toxic Femininity

buttlollipop · 2015-09-21T17:11:31+00:00

I know this thread borders on shitpost/satire, and fwiw I'm not one of those people who uses the term 'toxic masculinity' but I think if you want to find toxic female behavior, bullying in schools is a good place to start since popular 12 year old girls are all basically sociopaths (half joking). Gossip is another one, usually used to discredit female rivals (not that men don't gossip too, it's just usually women). Basically, anything that falls under the blanket of "catty-ness."

TheChemist158 · 2015-09-21T19:49:58+00:00

Sense of entitlement, feeling like men should do things on her behalf, acting as though her job in society is to look pretty. Most women don't do this, but these of l are examples.

wazzup987 · 2015-09-21T23:17:53+00:00

Not to mention that feminism only looks at toxic masculinity and femininity from a female perspective. The issues with 'toxic femininity' is that A) it only talked about from a female perspective B) does accurately capture what toxic femininity is. From a male perspective toxic femininity is the embrace of being a hypo agent and using the role as (moral) patient to get people to act on your behalf through proxy agents (usually men). Karla homalka is a great example of this. Or when a(n) (ex) wife gets a person (usually a man) to kill her husband OR when a wife kills her husband and claims battered woman (domestic terrorism). this view women as perpetual victims is toxic. Toxic masculinity from the male perspective is white knighting behavior. Not letting the woman in question exercise her agency AND suffer or enjoy the consequence of said choices.

See as a former business major i cringe when i hear feminist talk about empowerment because they stole the term from organization management sciences. See in the original parlance empowerment meant You are free to make these choices. the responsibility for those choices fall on you but the organization empowers you to make them.

When ever i hear feminist talk of empowerment it usually goes like this: "Women are disadvantaged in X area therefore men/government/businesses need to give stuff/help women do stuff. This is not empowering. ITs codifying hypoagency. you do not have agenecy BY DEFINITION if you are using proxy agents. Women assuming the role of hypoagent also means they are are never seen as moral agents. This means the men can and will get agency-sinked. She hits him there fore he must have done some thing to deserve it. a woman and a man commit a crime he must have convinced her to do it. She committed a crime... she must have had 'reasons'. basically it breaks down to that society excuses women for shit where is doesn't for men. take the dallas cheerleader that raped 15 year old boy. she gets to do 2 years of weekend jail so she can spend time with her kids. do you honestly think a man would get the same sentence? why is infantcide as law that only applies to women. (hint it positive sexism not negative sexism).

the problem wit the feminist use of 'toxic femininity' is : its myopic and only really deals with how women relate to other women in negative ways not men.

my thoughts from another post

BaadKitteh · 2015-09-21T22:19:59+00:00

The only things I can think of that even qualify for such a title are using negative stereotypes about women like being overly weak or emotional to manipulate an unfavorable situation or avoid work, and I think those silly bitches should be called out/fired if the situation warrants. Bursting into tears when caught fucking up shouldn't get you out of trouble. However, women who are so inclined are going to keep doing shit like that as long as men keep falling for it; it would be useless otherwise.

wombatinaburrow · 2015-09-21T23:01:27+00:00

Toxic femininity has long been called "queen bee/princess bitchface syndrome ", as those of us who spend time with tween and teen girls can attest to. Faux learned helplessness in order to be rescued all the time is up there, too.

vinegarbubblegum · 2015-09-21T17:24:39+00:00

what are your thoughts on Toxic Femininity?

we need balance their acid levels. I suggest a strong base. I often hose my women down in a mixture of alka-seltzer and PH neutral soap. I don't why.

What are the worst behaviors ingrained in women, by nature or by the Matrixarchy?

That thing they do. You know. All of it.

How can women be reformed and made into better citizens?

By negging them constantly.

WyvernEnigma · 2015-09-22T00:48:21+00:00

The most toxic female behaviors in my opinion are:

-Letting other people do things for you simply because you know they will

-Refusing to self-improve simply because you don't HAVE to to get by in this world as a woman

-Crying or playing weak/stupid or pouting and batting your eyes etc. in order to get guys to do things for you

These three often appear together. Basically, taking the path that's least difficult (often at the expense of others) simply because you can. You've only got one life, don't just coast by...

Xemnas81 · 2015-09-22T10:09:40+00:00

That girl who told her bf tp kill himself

thereddespair · 2015-09-21T20:34:59+00:00

reformed. its futile. give it up already, the evil has won

Title	Q4BP: Toxic Femininity
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