Somehow everyone on social media is throwing the chivalry requirement as an opener when dating women is the topic , even men who are labelled as " mysoginstic " like Andrew tate and the red pill community have a lot of contents dedicated to " chivalry " or it modern phrasing aka " How to treat women "

And it seems like there is a genuineness fear of going back to the typical dating problem that is built upon women chasing " bad boys " and how nice men then end up with dameged and mistreated wives with psychological trauma . This could also explain why the modern dating market is centred around women and not men , most people believe that as long as women are not mistreated, they would be no social problems regarding dating since they were raised on the initial idea that men are the reason of romantic relationships toxicity while women are easy to " manoeuvre " and want nothing but the pleasure of their men's company.

But now after most feminsts and men realised that women can also exhibit harmful behaviours that make the dating market toxic regardless of men's behaviours, it's seems that everyone is trying to control the damage and make sure to keep most men in check . Cause like it or not , installing " bad boy " mentality in modern men then throwing them to the current dating market would be like adding gasoline to fire .

Entitled women & spoiled men would make by far the worst parental pairing to even exist . We may not talk about it but modern relationships are currently built upon weak men with shattered self esteem spoiling uplifted and delusional women in a constant recycle of a romantic dynamic where men do and women receive with a noticeable hostile behaviour towards men who don't adhere to this ( "you only see women as object " or my personal favourite" you should love women for their personality" even if their personality is shit ) .

This is why most men don't get useful advices about dating , cause " controlling damages " is what most " influencers and modern culture is doing. We end up in a favourable dating market for women where most men are open to adapt for women but women are getting more entitled on the other hand . Adding an equally entitled type of men to the dating market would really be helpful to men but detrimental to women.

" I want princess treatment " type of girls with " Netflix and give me head " kind of guys would force most people to choose a side. Either deliberately support female entitlement and technically be a hypocritical type of a person or support those men's behaviours and built a sexual dating culture that would end up hurting a lot of average guy's future wife. ( sorry but a wife who give head to 10 guys on the first date isn't something that most men are okay with) .

I actually don't mind this , cause female entitlement and narcissism become such a problem in the modern dating market that any other result wouldn't be as harmful to men as the current one . And Let's be honest, those type of men would humble a lot of delusional women but may hurt a lot of currently non existent " nice girls " .