There are a few facts that people here seem to refuse.

  • Sex is a need. There is no way around it, for almost every human there is no happy life without sex or relationships.

  • Women have it easier is dating and romance, they're considered more attractive and they have more options, alot of the choices being undesirable(to them) doesn't undo that fact.

  • Men and women are biologically different and aren't blank slates and are affected by biology.

  • It's not just one sex being evil propagaters of every problem.

  • There isn't just one issue that causes all these problems, it's several things. Porn and videogames isn't causing men to be shut-ins with no social life. Becoming a rude sociopath isn't feasible for most men.

We need to accept these facts completely and absolutely, whatever conclusions we draw will be much better and we will have much more productive discussion.