Can somebody explain why I exist?

NormalCollar4 · 2021-03-16T19:52:02+00:00

You want to be a man because you seem to assume for some reason that you would be a rich, tall, handsome doctor. It's much more likely you would be average, and live a life that is lonely and without affection, like most young men do.

RP_Bear9 · 2021-03-16T16:16:47+00:00

I see a trend these days in everyone spending their time on social media (ie youtube), where the most negative sentiments are in your face without filters. Can't help to think it is creating much negative sentiment among women and men. I wonder if your viewing of such material is getting to you. Life can be quite a beautiful thing for any person - man or women - regardless of what they look like or have to offer. Much of happiness is based on how you interprete events and life. If you envy the freedom that men have, take a summer to overseas, get away from all the messages online. You'll meet some truly wonderful people - and maybe have your faith in humanity restored.

<Why the fuck would anybody want this?> - Don't view your gender as the problem that makes life unfair and makes you unhappy. Being a man would not really make a difference - men have their own unique set of problems that women do not have. What will make you happy changing your perception of life.

Crazy_Cranberry666 · 2021-03-16T13:55:03+00:00

You are on this world to offer a different perspective. To notice things a man wouldn't. To recognise the needs of yourself and others and do your best to make sure they get fulfilled.

Sure, traditionally this would be done as a mother. To teach kids what love is, how to be functional adults that offer something usefull to society. Or as a wife, making sure there is a safe place for your family to come home to. To have a healthy base to root and grow from.

But you can show your worth as a doctor as well. Comforting people, teaching by example by showing your strength, helping them back to health again. Some women don't want to be treated by male doctors. There are female doctors even in the most male-dominated societies. Female doctors are necessary. Being strong doesn't make you any less feminine.

You are only 18. If you have doubts, this is the time to think about what you really want out of life.

jonmarli · 2021-03-16T18:07:02+00:00

Have you considered looking for help for your preoccupation with your gender? This self hate is clearly making you miserable and it is not healthy. Neither women nor men lead an objectively superior or inferior existence (though I do agree with you that men enjoy many benefits from systemic inequality and of course there are instances where the opposite is true).

Anyway, I’m an atheist and I personally don’t think anyone exists for a reason. We just are and might as well make the most of it. I get a lot of meaning out of social connection and time spent in nature. Do you have any relationships that you value? Hobbies that give you pleasure and peace?

InterrogatorPikachu · 2021-03-16T21:57:21+00:00

This "freedom" that men has, needs to be earned, you dont get to fill bellies with sperm if you are average short dude, in fact mother nature wants the average short dude to have a horrible death, but she also wants the winner to take all the spoils, so if you would be a man, you better be one of the winners, the top 10%

pearlsandstilettos · 2021-03-17T01:57:51+00:00

Removed. We aren't here to throw pity parties.

Dramatic_Face_1396 · 2021-03-16T10:42:14+00:00

Being a guy is not as great as you imagine it to be I can assure you. Being an attractive guy? Now that’s a life that comes with perks, although I guess the same thing can be said for attractive women.

TheBunk_TB · 2021-03-16T16:19:09+00:00

You have a defeatist view of the human race.

Also, awesome by virtue of birth? Someone else is entitled to men's labor and tax money.

(In many westernized countries; men , not women, sign up for the draft)

magnafire · 2021-03-16T15:01:35+00:00

The grass isn’t always greener on the other side that’s what you’re suffering from and what majority of ppl suffer from

Granular_Details · 2021-03-16T17:07:59+00:00

I have no idea why any woman would feel automatically diminished next to a man, why she feels judged solely by her looks, or why she feels her desirability will degrade with her professional prestige or academic achievements, especially in 2021. Maybe this is part of being young and you will grow out of it? I am a baffled man.

Fancy-Ad657 · 2021-03-17T01:11:21+00:00

Your idea of men is so screwed up that you have lost reality.

You compare yourself to the top 10% of men. While ignoring the other 90%. If you would change yourself, trust me, you will end up in that 90% that no one cares about. Then you will hear how women treat you like shit. You wanna cry? "shut up and keep your emotions bottled up as a man. Don't be a beta male." You will get shot down by women left and right. The first time a woman will give you the time of day is after you strike out for 30+ times with other women. You think men can be mean? Then you clearly haven't dealt a lot with women yet.

The consequences of your actions are also a lot more heavy. Men don't have safety nets like women do.

We get judged by our skills. If you don't have the skills, you are worthless to the world.

I know a trans that changed from a girl to be a man ... this person has regretted that a lot already. She finally understands what it is to be a man. All the stuff you know are all lies created by feminists. Why do you think so many trans people commit suicide? Because they have been fed lies.

To go back to what i was saying before: All those constant beat downs by the world is how we build character. How we become stern and stoic. It has made me the man I am today.

The question you need to ask yourself right now, is what do you want from life? What is your number 1 desire?

Title	Can somebody explain why I exist?
Author	Far-Touch-6370
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Comments	26
Date	March 16, 2021 10:34 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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