I just read a similar post but talking about women’s N-count. I agreed with some of those points. I personally would want a virgin or as close to no -count as possible. Having said that, I would like to hear y’all’s perspectives on a men’s n-count.

I have personally chosen to stay a virgin. I won’t say I am a model and that hundreds of women are throwing themselves at me. However, I will say I’m fairly attractive, do get hit on, according to my girlfriend more than I realized. Even before my now relationship, I always rejected or pushed girls to not get that far.

I consider myself a high value men in the stereotypical sense of being able to be a provider, lead, take care of other, etc. I will, however, admit that in the sexual side I obviously have no experience and though i will definitely lead the first sexual interaction and all future ones(my partner is a virgin too), I can admit I’m not experienced.

How does this affect a men’s value if at all? Is the sexual value just as important for women as it is for men?