I (28/F) dated this guy 26/m for a few weeks. He pursued very hard with texting me every day, telling me I would meet his friends, each date lasting hours. We would have very real conversations. If you’ll read my other posts, you’ll see the last time we got together I blacked out and we had sex for the first time (I promise it was consensual we were both drunk when it happened and had sex again in the morning but he had to remind me) We had messed around for a number of times just never sex, because I let him know I needed exclusivity for sex. In the morning we hooked up again and I said I’m not okay with him having sex with other people when we are and he said he knew this and we talked about it last night.

I can’t take beck that night unfortunately and what I said and did, but after that he did the slow fade and broke it off a few days later saying “so this might come out of left field but I want to stop things where we are at. It’s nothing you did, I’m just not feeling an intimate connection. I’m sorry”

I of course thanked him for being honest and said that I was having fun getting to know him and I understood and haven’t heard from him since then and it’s been almost 2 weeks. Just feel really sad because I thought we had a genuine connection and he pursued me HARD at the beginning. Is it my fault that he’s no longer interested? I wish he would come back.