Hello. So i met this guy 4 months ago on tinder. We agreed to meet, as soon as he saw me i saw he looked at my ass. then after it we went to shop, i choosed to buy smth and he wanted to pay for it but i said no. then we went to walk and we talked a little bit , and then he mentioned we should go and chill at his place. I told him few times no, but then we started to walk towards his place so i was like okay i will go.

We drank, he was smoking weed, and we started to have sex but it seemed like he doesnt care about my pleasure and it was painful for me, so i got mad at him and i stopped the sex , i told him that because he paid for alcohol doesnt mean he can use me , so i was looking for money to give him as well like for the bottle, and he didnt take them he said he will throw them out. in the end i told him anyways i want to leave - so he came down with me, was still trying to convince me to come back, and then he wanted to pay for my taxi but i said no is fine, i will walk.

i kinda liked the guy so i sent him a text next day , he answered. next week, he texted me again to meet - i know i should have said no but i agreed. this time was better - sex was amazing. i enjoyed it. he was telling me tho things like he doesnt want kids so we use condoms(i want to use as well of course) and that one day i will meet my right man. i kinda started to like him so it hurt me a bit when he said this.

after this, i texted him one day very casual asking what he is up to, he said he is busy cause he is not in town at the moment , so i just gave him seen. on my birthday he texted me to congratulate me , i answered thanks.

i unfollowed him on instagram and took his follow out as well, and after one week he texts me “how are you doing?” on a saturday night , so i didnt answer that night. but next day i answered “very good” , without asking him back. now he asked me if i want to hang out - cause he is back in town now. i like this guy, but i dont want him to use me only for sex. how should i act? thanks.