Ages 20 and 37.

The main issue is I feel like I nag a lot, we met online and chatted for a week before meeting irl because I was at another city at the time. Then we met for a week and I was out of town for a week. I nagged a lot and messaged him a lot (like 50 times) if he didn't reply for hours, there were a few times his phone died at work.

Now it's better but I still do message him "too bad you forgot me" "sad you forgot me" "shame you found someone else". He is prone to not messaging for hours due to working in construction. So far he takes it in a funny way and we laugh about my messages and I don't really mean it, I know he'll eventually get back to me

But I worry long term this could get old. I'm trying to take it easy

We have met every day after work or on days off other than when I was out of town. We sit in the park, walk around, or get something to eat. When I'm not in town we talked usually two hours every night and sporadic texts in the day.

Another point of contention is that tiktok is an important part of my life, videos and tiktok live. He isn't a big fan, I told him we could just go live once a week but we've done it three times this week. People like seeing him but he is shy. So I guess I should probably stick to weekly?

I am not experienced with socialising at all so this is very new to me. I don't want to scare him off or for him to get tired of me. Spending time together is awesome

Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you!