I began to red pill myself for the past couple months. I’ve noticed positive changes in my attitude and self-worth. I started dressing more conservative, doing my make-up (light makeup, but still putting more effort in!) and working on being feminine in general. I noticed I feel sexier and so I want to keep doing it!

Before this... I would have never thought I would subscribe to RP, but after reading posts on here for about a year, I think I’ve come to the realization that it’s what I relate to the most. I’ve always leaned more liberal (which yes, I understand is completely acceptable, just not as common here) and it sort of takes me a minute to orient to RP sometimes. I take what I need from it and leave what I don’t. I started to care less and less about my appearance over the past couple years, but I didn’t realize how good becoming more feminine would feel!

My n count is high because I always thought sexual freedom should be just as acceptable for women, however, I am regretting that mentality now. I was definitely branch swinging for a couple years in there and I wish I would have vetted better — but what can you do now?

I’m not sure how to rate myself 1-10 looks wise. I’d say probably about a 6? I get attention from men. I’d say at least once every 1-2 weeks a random guy will say something to me. I’m 30, but people are often surprised by that and think I’m ~20-21. I’m in the medical field and studying to increase my position in the medical field. I’m told that I have a good sense of humor (although it’s a little more men-catered humor). I am extremely caring, nurturing and sweet. If someone upsets me, I’m typically someone who will wish you well and genuinely mean it. I try to be as kind as possible.

I’m kind of shy, but I’d say the people I normally make friends with are male. Like in the work environment, my friends are typically always male. I do make female friends, but they don’t really ever ask me to do anything if I’m just meeting them. I have a core group I’ve know for 15+ years. I am currently engaged, so I make that clear and my fiancé is totally fine with me taking with other men. My fiancé is not RP at all — one of the reasons I’m struggling to modify my behavior.

I’m completely fine without a RP significant other, but I’d like to make my relationship value better. I want to be more interesting and learn how to be a better partner. We don’t fight, we talk things out. We are both easy going and have good communication with each other.

I’m looking from RPW advice on how to modify my behavior to more RP-friendly. I’d like to know which traits you value for relationship value, what books you’re reading (besides Fascinating Womanhood — which I ordered!) and overall any advice you’d give to someone who wants to increase their relationship value. I need to make more girl friends and get together with them (but adult friendships are tough!), so any advice on that is appreciated. I’m looking for anything to help me to be more interesting as a person and how you would go about improving that quality.

Thanks ladies :)