Need to rant about something F25.

Porn, Respect, and Why the World Is Actually on the Wrong Track

I’m so tired of how everything in relationships gets twisted around. The moment you set a boundary → you’re called “jealous” or “controlling.” But here’s the truth: expecting respect isn’t jealousy. It’s basic loyalty.

Respect means: – Being faithful, both physically and mentally. – Not flirting or seeking attention from others. – Not living in a fantasy world of porn or OnlyFans and pretending it’s “normal.”

Let’s be honest: porn and OnlyFans have become an extreme toxic culture. It’s now so normalized that people see it as the most natural thing in the world – but it’s insane if you actually think about it. – It’s unnatural for the human brain. – It destroys intimacy and the ability to be present. – It makes girls desperate for validation and guys unable to control themselves. – Kids are exposed to this as young as six years old through iPads and tablets, while parents don’t set real boundaries. The result? A whole generation growing up without ever learning what love, respect, and self-control actually mean.

And now we see the consequences in black and white: – Zero emotional intelligence. – People giving a damn about the wrong things. They don’t care about loyalty, respect, or responsibility – but they’ll obsess over likes, stares, “heys” and chasing the next dopamine hit.

Girls, you’re not off the hook either: The girl constantly chasing male attention, posting half-naked pics for likes, or hitting on her friend’s boyfriend – that’s not empowerment. That’s tragic.

Guys who exploit this: You’re not “players.” You’re cowards. You build yourselves up by manipulating insecure girls instead of becoming men with an actual backbone.

This is why it feels almost impossible for my generation to find a partner who’s truly loyal and respectful. Not because we’re “childish” or “jealous,” but because porn, dopamine-chasing, and validation culture have destroyed the foundation relationships should stand on.

So no – I don’t buy the lie. And to everyone who actually sees this clearly: you’re not crazy. You’re the only ones calling things what they really are.

Porn has turned the world into a place where people don’t care about the most important things – loyalty, respect, responsibility – but obsess over the most meaningless ones. That’s not freedom. That’s cowardice.