Relationship and dominance

AlysArria · 2023-03-09T19:46:03+00:00

For a good, long term relationship, the man's dominance should be asserted and quite present, as well as the woman's submission and obedience. Neither side should be so overwhelming that they are not well-rounded adults, which is to say the man should listen to good advice and input from his woman, and the woman should be able to function and make decisions without being 100% dependent. Nevertheless, in my opinion, the man's dominance and the woman's submission to him is one of the important cornerstones of a successful relationship.

Good to keep in mind, too, that each relationship will have a different dynamic. Some men feel the need to only exert some dominance, some exert more, some women require more or less, and so on. I tend to do better with very dominant men. In general too, it's easier for a woman to adjust to being more submissive, than it is for a man to become less dominant.

Armchair678 · 2023-03-09T19:57:28+00:00

Enough that there is no confusion as to the roles each plays and there are clear expectations and ultimately teamwork between the two. But not too much that the woman feels disrespected or unheard.

free_breakfast_ · 2023-03-10T07:34:27+00:00

This is a copy and paste from one of my old comments that has some solid RPWi theory on dominance relationship dynamics:

In a nut shell, different women have different dominance thresholds - for the high dominance women with high thresholds, it requires a man with an equal and greater dominance level for them to submit.

rosesonthefloor · 2023-03-10T10:28:36+00:00

I agree with u/free_breakfast_ - it’s really dependent on the two people within the relationship and their independent threshold levels. What works for the two of them, as individuals?

The dominance of the man and the submission of the woman should complement each other and work together for the best chance of success. It should be enough that she feels safe and cared for, but not overly controlled (unless she’s into that). And if you’re talking about a sexual dominant, that’s even more nuanced than a vanilla relationship.

There’s no specific answer to this - what works for one woman may not work for another.

It’s also much harder to “show dominance” in a LDR.

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Date	March 9, 2023 7:42 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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