An excerpt in “Getting to I do” by Pat Allen stood out to me, where she encourages walking away from stagnant relationships. She says “Many masculine, bullheaded men must feel the pain of loss before they realize that they want to be married.”.

How much do you believe this statement? This seems to be especially true for stubborn men who have a “my way or highway” type of attitude, especially if they have a high SMV. Have you seen this happening first hand?