Background:

About 2 years ago I met Cindy(f23) on tinder and we hit it off.She was somewhat pretty.I didn't see any red flags and we did had a great first date. On the second date, I took her to my apartment where we flirted and things were leading to sex, we didn't but damn we were so close.She said she wasn't ready and I respected it and so instead we went out for some drinks. Now here's the thing, admidst the sexual foreplay before we went out, she did mention she was only looking for friends but it honestly sly through my ears (I thought it was just a playful test).

On the fourth date she finally drop the bomb and I realize she wasn't playing when she said it (Mind you, we have kiss a lot, had a third date, we were even more sexual and I have spend a lot of damn money). My mind snap back into reality because I was LEAD ON .I look at her and said that I wasn't looking for friends. She insisted to be friends because she loved the dates and the time we spend together. What I said next completely shook her!

"When a woman wants to be friends, (especially WITH WHAT WE WENT THROUGH) it's because she wants to keep you as a backup plan, or orbitor while she goes and explore other options".

I'm telling you, the moment I told her that sh!t, her world came crashing down, as if though no man has ever put her in her place. Her eyes opened wide, her jaw dropped a little and was left speechless for a minute without any rebuttal. I had one of those HAA....GOT YA moments .From this impression alone, I've reliaze no man has ever challenge her and that most men might have be probably too nice. Again, she insisted we be friends which I responded that I have enough friends. For a third time, she insisted that we are better off as friends. I saw that there would be no end to this chat and that she couldn't understand my point of view. I finally agree to be friends, and said "Okay sure". When I drop her off, I shake her hand and thank her for the great time we had. I genuinely enjoy it and smile🙂.

When I reach home, I was so fckng angry😡🤬. I dispise her, the time and all the money I spend. I was so stupid and too infatuated with her.I even deleted tinder and had a little drink.

She texted me later that night and wanted to chat, I kept it short, friendly and agreeable.After seeing my non-enthusiastic and plantonic responses, She ask me if this was it? I said to her no but in my mind it was.As days pass, I never initiated contact and she eventually stop contacting me.Those weeks were bad but as time passed, I begot to heal .And I've realize I made the right decision because I rather leave than to be her good friend and see her being fck by other men.

Thoughtout the 2 years, I kept her in my socials and I usually see her updates. She has always posted half nude pictures with most showing breast cover by her hair. And just recently, I've reliaze it's actually very sad because I've purchase 3 lands during this time. And I am LITERALLY LITERALLY seeing how her looks are deteriorating. On the other hand, Im planning to build some rental property after I finish paid off 6k in loans. It's little and yes I've lost my job but fck it. I'll be rich one day and my total net value will be well over 1 millon. And what does this chick have? Only her looks. she didn't even do something great or got some degree. I mean, there's nothing wrong with posting pics but all her pics are self center and attention seeking.It's that's the only thing you have going for yourself? I ask. what will happen when your looks begins to fade? At what age will you realize, you need to get her sht together? And to said i was really infatuated with you. Now I only see a shallow individual.