I know I maybe with hear NAWALT or that I'm being too idealistic, but after reading a post (I'll quote it at the bottom) in the current sticky I was wondering if the lack of loyalty women in Western societies display along with the almost sociopathic hypergamy i.e. dropping your husband as soon as a higher-value man comes along was actually due to them being psychologically damaged by having so many sexual partners.

You get the stereotype of the innocent girl who loves the alpha who breaks her heart and then she decides to ride the cock-carousel before settling down with some poor beta, she was obviously being hypergamous by having the alpha, but would she have loved him almost unconditionally compared with her subsequent sexual partners since he was the first?

"You know, I think an unfortunate truth that a lot of guys around here are unwilling or refuse to accept is we can't have it both ways. We can't have a society like we currently do where the price for pussy is so unbelievably low, where women will sleep with men at the drop of the hat, and promiscuity is completely encouraged and still want to find The One™ and believe in True Love™. It just doesn't work.

Sleeping around fucks women up. They can't pair-bond as easily. They lose the piece of themselves that can effectively love a man. As long as we are taking advantage of their relative easiness these days, there will be long lines of broken women left in the wake for some beta to try and turn into a respectable housewife.

Guys like us are part of the problem (although a smaller one than betas and feminists, I imagine). If tomorrow men who routinely sleep with multiple women said "No mas" then you would see a shift back to traditional values, like the conservative circlejerk fantasy. Problem is, we all like sex, it's in our blood, and that day is never going to come.

You can have your Goethean romance or you can have clubsluts on your dick every other night. You can't have both. And our current society has most definitely moved in the latter direction.

Act accordingly."

~yozhik5

EDIT: I noticed this at school, so many of the girls had had one long term first boyfriend they would occasionally mention as if he was their love who got away (before sucking dick in a bush or in the toilets) and I just thought maybe the way to have that long-term eternal bond with a girl is to get in their before any other man does and really make the relationship work-but you have to be her first.