Attraction Trumps Emotion

--Cherry--

Summary

After having sex with a girl from a party, I found out she was "really mad at me". When I saw her at a party the next week, I completely ignored the drama she created. She was in my bed later that night.

Disclaimer: We all know that women make decisions based on their emotions. In this case, my high SMV allowed me to overcome the emotional obstacle without having to directly address it.

Body

I am a college student in a fraternity, so I meet girls at parties almost every night. This allows me to truly feel abundance mentality. No matter what happens, I know tomorrow I'll meet another girl.

During the first week of the semester, I made out with a girl who we'll call Megan. This was nothing special. Most nights, there are plenty of people hooking up at our parties. I thought it wouldn't lead to anything more.

A month later, after hooking up with Megan at another party, I bring her back to my room. We engage in lots of foreplay. As things were progressing toward sex, she whispers in my ear, "--Cherry--, I'm a virgin."

I had a decision to make: her body language was clearly communicating desire. She was ready to lose her virginity.

I decided to back off. The beta in me felt bad for Megan. She was about to lose her virginity on a one night stand with a frat douche bag. I was also worried about repercussions. It's very dangerous when a girl is unsure whether she wants to have sex. She could easily spin this into something it wasn't.

One week after, I bring her back to my room again. This time no mention of the V Card and we have sex. She didn't say anything about it. I started slow and once I made sure she was okay with it, I treated her just like I would have any other girl.

Two weeks after we have sex, I was talking to a couple friends of Megan that I know:

Friend 1: "I hate you --Cherry--."

Me: "Okay cool."

Friend 1: "I can't tell you why, but I'm mad at you."

Friend 1 storms off.

I turn to Friend 2.

Me: "You know you guys are eventually going to tell me why you're mad at me. You might as well tell me now."

Friend 2: "She is mad at you because she found out you had sex with Megan."

Me: "Okay..."

Friend 2: "You know she was a virgin, right?"

Me: "Of course I did."

Friend 2: "Well now Megan is upset. Apparently you were too rough on her. She told us she has bruises."

This was a shock. I didn't think Megan was mad at all, and I definitely didn't think I gave her bruises.

Even though I knew I did nothing wrong, I decided to text Megan the next day to be sure. She did not respond.

By sending the text, I wanted to make sure she wasn't going to make up false stories and spread them behind my back. Judging from the outcome, not only was this not necessary, it was the move of a beta.

A couple days later, Megan came to our party again. This was a good sign; there were plenty of other parties for her to go to. I walked up to her and didn't acknowledge any of the drama that she had created.

Almost immediately, I brought her to the dance floor and we began hooking up. She never brought up the incident, and the next thing I know, she is back in my bed. I proceeded to fuck her with some kinky shit thrown in. She slept over.

While I was inside her, she screamed, "You're the devil."

Lessons Learned

  • Texting Megan was unnecessary. By texting her, I did exactly what she wanted. She was looking for attention, and I gave it to her.
  • I overcame the text because I held frame with her friends. I gave them the impression that I didn't think this was a big deal. You can overcome one mistake if you have a high SMV and continue to hold frame.
  • As this experience shows, in the right circumstances, her attraction can trump her emotion.

Thanks for reading. This is my first post, so I'd love to hear any feedback you guys have for me.

For anyone wondering, the name doesn't have to do with popping cherries. In this case, it was just a happy coincidence.